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Awareness for domestic Abuse

In Memory of Kay Kim's Blogs

Yes, She Was Murdered, But This Is A Blog About Hope


~The only thing we never get enough of is love; and the only thing we never give enough of is love.—Henry Miller


—After Kay’s murder, my friend, Jane, asked, “Kim, when did it all begin? I said, “At the very beginning.”


The following journal entries of my sister, Kay, reveals the premature signs of domestic abuse. Although they may appear minimal and insignificant at first, these acts of disrespect, unkindness, & disregard are vividly captured within these pages.


As I read Kay’s words, what stands out the most is her desperation to be loved, respected, acknowledged, and valued by her life-partner.


A picnic in the woods. Breaking bread. Drinking wine.  Giving love.  Receiving love.


So simple.  So practical.


…Yet it never happened.

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In Memory of Kay Kim's Blogs

Through Darkness Comes Light

—–The purpose of life is not to be happy – but to matter, to be productive, to be useful, to have it make some difference that you have lived at all.  ~Leo Rosten


Melissa has Kay's Liver!

Melissa has Kay’s Liver!


On May 26th. 2010, my sister’s husband murdered her as she was walking out the front door for her daily walk.  It was 5:15 PM.  He shot her 3 times in the back of the head to make damn sure she never got up again.

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