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Mother’s Day Better Than Sex Cake w/Salted Pecans

~After church today, I’m having everybody over for Better Than Sex Cake w/ Salted Pecans.


Happy Mother’s Day, Darlings!


Love Love Love You.  xxx

what you will need

what you will need

Mother’s Day Better Than Sex Cake w/ Salted Pecans


1 box devil’s food cake mix ( bake according to directions ) 9×13 pan

14 oz can sweetened condensed milk

6 oz. caramel topping ( can use more! )

Toffee bars ( I buy the package toffee w/ chocolate )

1- 8 oz container of whipped topping ( I purchased Dream Whip )

Salted pecans


  • Bake Cake 350 for about 25 minutes ( use your judgement )
  • Cool for 5 minutes. Make holes across the top of cake. ( I use a wooden spoon )
  • In saucepan on low heat, combine condensed milk & caramel topping. Stir until the mixture is smooth and blended well. Pour mixture over the top of warm cake.  Allow the decadence to sink into holes. It’s fun to watch!
Pour. Sink. Absorb.

Pour. Sink. Absorb.

  • Sprinkle the toffee over the cake while still warm.  ( be generous! )
  • Sprinkle salted pecans over cake. ( as much as you desire! )
  • Allow cake to cool completely. Top with cool whip. Sprinkle more toffee over top.
  • Refrigerate and serve when ready.
Oh, My, Baaaby!

Oh, My, Baaaby!

Your guests will say–

Ahhhh.  Ooooo.  YESssss.  WOW.  More, Please.


I Love You, MOMMY!

I Love You, MOMMY!

–Let me know if it’s better than sex.  Call your Mommy if you can.  If not, call somebody to say “I Love You.”  Spread it around…

Also,  you can make this on Father’s Day ! 

xx KISsssssss

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  • Reply
    Jodi Aman
    May 8, 2016 at 1:13 pm


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    Kim gagnon
    May 8, 2016 at 1:46 pm

    Oooh looks so good!! Beautiful pics of your mom and you and Kay!! I called your mom and left a message!! Love you!! 💐💋K

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      My Inner Chick
      May 9, 2016 at 4:47 am

      You are a SWEETHEART.
      My mom said you called her! sweet. xxx

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    My Inner Chick
    May 8, 2016 at 2:45 pm

    TEST)) 1

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    Nan C Loyd
    May 8, 2016 at 2:46 pm

    Hmmmm. Nothing is better than sex with Alpha Hubby – unless it is him eating the cake off my body – heh heh heh!! This cake – phew – comes in a great second.

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    Elephant's Child
    May 8, 2016 at 3:19 pm

    A very happy Mothers’ Day to those who have or are one.

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    Carrie Rubin
    May 8, 2016 at 4:42 pm

    Oh my, that looks naughty good. I’m suddenly craving chocolate.

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    May 8, 2016 at 6:14 pm

    Your mommy is sooo beautiful. Happy Mother’s day ❤❤❤

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    Angie@Angie's Recipes
    May 8, 2016 at 8:49 pm

    Chocolate and salted pecans…an amazing combo! Your mama is so BEAUTIFUL!!

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    Anna @ shenANNAgans
    May 8, 2016 at 10:16 pm

    Ooooh YARM! Now this looks and sounds like my kinda cake. And what a delicious and yummy combination of flavours too. Im loving the sweet and salty very much lately. 🙂 I do hope your Mommas Day was filled with more then 1 slice of cake, all the love and fun too. Big squishy hugs and love. xox

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    May 9, 2016 at 1:29 am

    Kim, all my vices mixed into one cake. So naughty of you to share this recipe!! Super-sweet photo of your mom, and love her bangs. Happy mother’s day!

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    May 9, 2016 at 2:46 am

    This looks like a SPECIAL & YUMMY treat Kim. I wonder how you can stop yourself from eating it all!
    Love when you share such beautiful recipes!
    Love to you and all mums of the world (Mother’s Day is @ then end of May in France)

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    Totally Caroline
    May 9, 2016 at 5:39 am

    I can almost taste it lol (I probably put on a few pound too lol)
    Happy Mother’s Day ❤️❤️❤️

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    May 9, 2016 at 6:11 am

    Ooo, I would have gobbled up portion after portion of this divine cake.
    We had my folks around for a curry and apfelkuthen (German apple cake) for dessert.
    Was a beautiful evening together.
    Love and warm hugs to you darling Kim.
    🙂 Mandy xo

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    Chris Carter
    May 9, 2016 at 7:52 am

    Oh my GOODNESS I am salivating!! I soooo wish I could eat that UP. At your home, with your loved ones- with YOU.

    I hope you had a BEAUTIFUL Mother’s Day, dear one.

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    lisa thomson-The Great Escape...
    May 9, 2016 at 8:33 am

    Oh, my…..YUM!!

    Happy Mother’s Day, Kim xo That pic of your mom is so sweet! Thanks for sharing this delectable recipe.

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    julie gardner
    May 9, 2016 at 9:25 am

    I hope your day was absolutely delicious.

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    May 10, 2016 at 2:18 pm

    Kim, this looks amazing!! Hope your Mother’s Day was just as sweet as this cake appears to be! Domer came home — unexpectedly! — and having her kids show up, holiday or no, is a treat every mom can relate to!! xx

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    Minnesota Prairie Roots
    May 11, 2016 at 6:05 am

    I’ve had this delicious cake many times, but never made it myself. You are tempting me.

    I hope you had a wonderful Mother’s Day, Kim. I spent it with my eldest and her family (including baby granddaughter) and the other two called. So it was a good day mostly.

    Love love love that b & w portrait of your mom. She is beautiful.

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    May 13, 2016 at 5:09 am

    I hope that it was wonderful Kim.
    Moist on the cake box makes me giggle 🙂

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    May 17, 2016 at 3:47 am

    I hope you had a great mothers day!

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    May 17, 2016 at 6:23 am

    Oh yum! I’ve loved pecans ever since I saw pecan products all over the pace when I lived down South.

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    May 17, 2016 at 8:25 pm

    My mouth is watering! Delicious, darling.

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    Lorraine @ Not Quite Nigella
    May 18, 2016 at 2:37 am

    You’re so funny Kim!! And this looks utterly decadent. Now to answer your question I’m watching the final episode of The Good Wife tonight which I am very excited about! And then I’m watching Better Call Saul 😀 And you? x

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    Stephanie Faris
    May 19, 2016 at 6:53 pm

    Sounds DELICIOUS! I had that kind of cake once when a woman I worked with brought it in for something. Very moist and yummy!

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    Gary Sidley
    May 20, 2016 at 4:12 am

    Sadly – for us men – women seem to find a lot of confectionary much better than sex!
    Sending positive vibes from the UK.

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    May 23, 2016 at 5:50 pm

    Wait! did you say better than sex cake and you have condensed milk in it… well my lovely Kim, anything with condensed milk is right up my alley. Salted pecans too…
    Your mom is just gorgeous.. what a beautiful photo.

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    May 31, 2016 at 5:53 pm

    I used to make this one quite often! I’m home on sick leave and all I’ve been doing is eating. Lord knows I certainly don’t need this cake in my home, but now I must make it. Totally craving it now Kim! Thanks…ugh!!!! Love you girl!

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    Sandra Garth
    June 1, 2016 at 8:12 am


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