In Memory of Kay Kim's Blogs

A Month Without Soul


—Ever have a month without muse, without words, without poetry, without soul?

 

Well, I’m having one of those months, my darlings.

 

So, I shall post random, irrelevant things that make me smile hugely and fully.

 

My muse, apparently, is in a remote village in Africa.

I LOVE this photo of Kay from High School!

I LOVE this photo of Kay from High School!

  • I recently found this on somebody’s Facebook page.  I remember.  I love.  love.  love.  I  miss. miss. miss.  I want. want. want. HER BACK.

 

  • I heard this song for the first time last week and fell deeply, profoundly, unequivocally in love.  There is something about rising, unfolding wings, & lifting up that thrills me wholly.

  •  One day I opened a book by Sylvia Plath & understood I wasn’t alone in the world. She is my greatest inspiration as a writer.  A genius.  A pioneer.  A feminist. Too bad poetry couldn’t save her.
Plath is Delectable.

Plath is Delectable.

  • Adele puts a spell on me.  Fucking amazing.

  •   I adore Men As Peacemakers.  They are at the forefront of a powerful movement in Duluth to promote equality and end violence against women and children.    Donate HERE!

 

  • Not sure what to do with your extra bows?  Want to recycle, save the earth?   Dress up your cat, of course!  This is Bizzy,  the red nosed cat.
Weird Cat!

Weird Cat!

—-Darling,  Reader,  Merry Christmas!  What will you do?  What will you eat?  What are some of your traditions?  For the British / Australian Girls:  Do you make mince pies?  Tell me something to make me smile.   I looooooooooooove you.  xx

 


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45 Comments

  • Reply
    Debbie D.
    December 14, 2015 at 4:09 pm

    My muse takes time off for the holidays. 🙂
    That is a beautiful photo of your sister. ♥
    Andra Day’s commercial with Stevie Wonder plays all the time. She has a magnificent voice, as does Adele. Watched her “Live from London” TV special recently. What a fabulous comeback she is having!
    Count me among the Sylvia Plath fans as well. Another great talent lost much too soon.
    The British have some great Christmas traditions. Love those mince pies! I follow many of my mother’s German customs, including having our main celebration on Christmas Eve. We prepare a seafood dinner, as per hubby’s Italian tradition, with Spanish coffee and stollen (German Christmas cake) for dessert. After that, we open the gifts, then settle in with the dogs for a Christmas movie marathon. This spills over to the next day when we basically “veg out” and eat left-overs. Neither one of us has immediate family here and this is something we look forward to all year. My house is full of other people’s dogs at this time, so we stay put! 😀
    Merry Christmas to you and your family, Kim.

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    debbie
    December 14, 2015 at 4:58 pm

    Love Adele and cannot stop listening to her new cd. That is a great picture of Kay. So young. When I was little we opened gifts on Christmas Eve and went to my grandmas on Christmas Day. Now my family and I attend church on Christmas Eve. Our church is well over 100 years old and at the end of service we turn out the light and sing Silent Night holding a candle. Love it! Christmas day it’s all about the food and presents. Have a wonderful holiday Kim!

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    Elephant's Child
    December 14, 2015 at 7:00 pm

    I am pretty certain my muse has retired. Or run away from home. With my mind.
    Christmas here? Hot. Often very, very hot. Salads are the order of the day.
    I cook turkey breast for himself the night before.
    And for myself I make a HUGE bowl of fruit salad. No apple. No orange. Many berries. Cherries. Lychees. Mango. Kiwi fruit. Peaches. Nectarines. Apricots. And more.
    And I start my day with a glass of bubbles. (Unless I am doing a shift on the crisis line when the bubbles have to wait.).
    The cats get gifts too.
    Hugs to you sweet Kim. You are much loved.

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      My Inner Chick
      December 17, 2015 at 2:25 pm

      Perhaps our muses are drinking martinis together in the Bahamas right now, darling! xxxxxx

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    Angie@Angie's Recipes
    December 15, 2015 at 2:00 am

    That’s a really beautiful picture of Kay from high school.
    I too love Adele. Her voice is so sexy and amazing.
    Wishing you and yours a peaceful holiday season, Kim.
    Angie

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      My Inner Chick
      December 17, 2015 at 2:26 pm

      Hi, Angie,
      sending you warm hugs from MN. xx00

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    Chris Carter
    December 15, 2015 at 7:31 am

    OH how I adore that picture of Kay! You know, I’ve been searching for the Sacred Season for a few weeks, and well… not finding it. I’ve come up frustrated and numb. I HATE when that happens, don’t you? Uninspired when you are trying to be inspired.

    Life can crash into us- in the most ridiculous and profound ways. Last week was ridiculous. This week- profound. Peace is setting in. God is moving… I feel it. I feel Him.

    I am often praying for you while touching Kay’s cross and talking to her… I glance at it now and smile, touching it gently once again and I well up in tears.

    OH, how I cannot WAIT to meet her. To meet YOU.

    Someday. I just know it will happen.

    • Reply
      My Inner Chick
      December 17, 2015 at 2:26 pm

      I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOve your comments soooooooooo much!

      And YOU!! xxxxx

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    Kristi Campbell
    December 15, 2015 at 8:12 am

    Wow, that song I Rise Up is incredible. I’ve never heard it before so thank you for sharing. For the holidays, we’ll go to Colorado to see most of my family. And (!!) Tucker will get to go snow tubing in the Rockies so I really look forward to that. Deciding on whether to try teaching him to ski yet. Love to you.

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    Debbie
    December 15, 2015 at 11:51 am

    Merry Christmas, dear Kim! I so love that photo of Kay, and I can see how you do, too. Silly kitty — Dallas would never cotton to being “bowed”!! As for the Muse, why, I think they ALL take off during the holidays — nothing interesting about writing Christmas cards, you know.

    I expect a rather quiet Christmas here. We’ll do Mass on Christmas Eve and stuff our faces with turkey and its trimmings the next day. Oh, and watch football, perhaps sneak a nap, open presents, and, if it’s as warm as they say, take a nice walk! We never take down the decorations until after the New Year (traditionally, Epiphany). Hugs to you from grey/gloomy Central Illinois! xxxx

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      My Inner Chick
      December 17, 2015 at 9:33 pm

      AWWw, your Christmas traditions sound grand, Debbie.
      Love from Minnesota 🙂 xx

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    Sandra
    December 15, 2015 at 1:10 pm

    Stunning picture of Kay!!! For this month and from now on dear friend, let the words take you where they may. Eat chocolate, drink wine and wear the most vivid red lipstick you can find!

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    Liz
    December 15, 2015 at 1:16 pm

    Sorry your muse went on vacation. Still, you continue to inspire us.

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    nan @ lbddiaries
    December 15, 2015 at 1:24 pm

    Something to make you smile… hmmm, two divas walked into a… no, that’s not it. I got nuttin. I am going to tell you something – 2016 is shaping up to be your best year yet. God is going to richly bless you over and above all you can ask or think. Doors are going to open beyond your wildest dreams. You will go places you’ve never gone before helping others in ways you never imagined. The coming year is going to RAWK for you, my dear friend. Dream bigger, stretch farther, reach higher – nothing is impossible.

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    Dad
    December 15, 2015 at 1:47 pm

    Love that picture of Kay. Adele is an amazing singer.
    Love You
    Dad

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    Carrie Rubin
    December 15, 2015 at 2:31 pm

    For not having your muse around, you still come up with a wonderful post. All sorts of goodies here. But I know what it’s like to feel like your creativity is sapped, so I hope you get your mojo back. Surely a cute kitty covered in bows is a step in the right direction!

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    Deborah Batterman
    December 15, 2015 at 4:26 pm

    That is one sweet-looking cat . . . who just happens to remind of a cat that once belonged to me. The way I see it, though, the muse never leaves you. She just wants to give you a little space 😉

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    Totally Caroline
    December 15, 2015 at 5:09 pm

    Ive been feeling that way too these days. Your muse and smile will come back. She is taking a well deserved siesta 💋

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    Jann
    December 16, 2015 at 7:34 am

    Kim, maybe your muse is at a warm Caribbean beach recharging with a long cold drink. Meanwhile, here’s a joke I just heard:
    Knock knock.
    Who’s there.
    Broken pencil.
    Broken pencil who.
    Never mind, it’s pointless.
    xxxxxxMerry Christmas to you and your family!!! xxxxxxxx

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    Michelle
    December 16, 2015 at 7:44 am

    A friend sent this to me today. It filled me with so much joy and triggered a story I want to write someday.
    May it help you find your Muse, too.
    Love from KS

    https://youtu.be/5VzprYCxPBQ

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    Dana
    December 16, 2015 at 11:00 am

    I’m sorry you’re having one of those months…I hope you find some soul in it before the end of 2015.

    Here’s a joke to make you smile:

    How did Harry Potter get down the hill?
    Walking.
    JK, rolling. 🙂

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    solidgoldcreativity
    December 16, 2015 at 5:58 pm

    Kim, yep, we make mince pies in Australia. Here’s a photo of the band you so kindly sent me. I want you and your family to know I wear it every day and I never take it off. I like people to notice the band, and when they do I think of you and Kay and your family and all the women who have experienced domestic violence or are experiencing it now. https://solidgoldcreativity.files.wordpress.com/2015/12/img_4304.jpg

    Love you loads, our beautiful leader xx

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    Jodi Aman
    December 17, 2015 at 6:21 am

    You are more inspired than the rest of us, even in your dry spell. I love your video on Fb where you tell epople you love them. You are inspiring the world, my dear. Maybe this month you are a muse for others? (me.)

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    lisa thomson-the great escape
    December 17, 2015 at 6:30 am

    Hi Kim, I must read the Belle Jar. I’m missing out, truly. I love that photo of Kay. It’s fantastically candid. Thank you for sharing your favorite music. I’m obsessed with Adele’s Hello. Some people say they are tired of it. I say, what? How could anyone tire of that voice! Andra’s Rise Up is beautiful!! I’ve never heard of her and what an amazing voice.

    My kids will be here on Tuesday! My traditions are always changing. This year I’m cooking on Christmas Eve. I’m still getting organized and doing last minute shopping. I will send you my left over bows for Bizzy. Merry Christmas, Dearest Kim. I love you!!

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    julie gardner
    December 17, 2015 at 9:21 am

    You couldn’t be without soul if you tried, my dear.
    Love the picture of Kay, the Bizzy Bow Cat, the songs.

    Mostly I love your heart.

    This year will be all about our last family Christmas before our first child goes off to college next fall. I might tear up a time or two. But it’s all good. So good.

    So.
    XO

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    Jeri
    December 17, 2015 at 3:43 pm

    This is such a busy time of the year, so it’s no wonder many of us find our Muse taking a vacation from inspiring us. I’m looking forward to spending a day backing with my sister early next week and drinking a ton of booze in the process 😉

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    Gary
    December 17, 2015 at 6:14 pm

    Hey Kim,

    Randomly random is fine with me. At least your randomness is not incoherent, disjointed drivel like I write.

    As for Adele, one moment, please….Argggghhhh!!!…please make her stop!!!! 🙂

    On Christmas Day, I shall be online most of the day to be there for others. Others, whether they be lonely or just want to escape the Christmas Day family arguments! I spend most Christmas Days by myself and thus, a positive focus on others, hopefully helps them and me.

    Bless you and have a good one! 🙂 xx

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    Mandy
    December 18, 2015 at 5:06 am

    I absolutely adore your Bizzy. He is a beautiful sole, especially to allow you to adorn him with Christmas bows – what a sweetheart!
    What an extraordinary and beautiful picture of your darling Kay! Love, love, love!
    You must be my muse as I speak about you daily to my Pete!
    Blessings and love to you my sweet friend from Duluth!
    🙂 Mandy xoxoxoxoxoxo

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    Barbara Hammond
    December 18, 2015 at 10:26 am

    My muse left with 2 dud computers this week, but I saved this in my queue because your randomness is better than most anyone else.
    I’m still dealing with tech issues, which puts a damper on everything for me, but our son and his family are coming this weekend for our ‘family Christmas’ with them. I miss the old days when we were all together at the same time, but I’ll take them anyway and anytime I can get them.
    I hope you have a wonderful holiday, Kim.
    Love, b

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    Marie Kléber
    December 21, 2015 at 6:51 am

    You are my muse KIM, a ray of sunshine!
    I missed you and your words.
    Love this photo of Kay – she is so beautiful…
    Can’t wait to have a break. I found it hard to find the Spirit of Christmas this year. Still looking for it, in the middle of gifts wrapping and more gifts to get done. I wish we would want to share other things that gifts.
    Being together is already the best gift ever!
    From Paris with Love. xoxoxxo

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    Minnesota Prairie Roots
    December 21, 2015 at 8:37 am

    Your soul is always here, my dearest Kim. Always.

    Many hugs and much love from southern Minnesota.

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    Hotly Spiced
    December 21, 2015 at 1:20 pm

    Yes, I do have times where I find it very hard to write. I love your decorated cat! And that is a beautiful photo of Kay. Yes, we do have mince pies at Christmas. And fruit cake. And plum pudding. And turkey. And glazed baked full leg of ham. And sunshine, and heat, and sweating, and the beach, and the need to wear sunglasses even inside, and fatigue and carols and Jesus and joy. Merry Christmas to you, Kim, and to all your family both here and with Jesus xx

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    Dawn
    December 22, 2015 at 6:18 pm

    Have a great Christmas. That’s a lovely photo of Kay. Hugs.

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    Monica
    December 23, 2015 at 10:02 am

    I love Adele, too. And I just discovered Andra Day in that commercial she does with Stevie Wonder for Apple. I fell in love with her voice right then and there. In fact, the song they perform inspired my latest post, where I also included a video of them singing the song, Someday at Christmas. I get emotional just thinking about their rendition.

    Merry Christmas, my friend.

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    Anna @ shenANNAgans
    December 26, 2015 at 3:45 am

    Adele has been on repeat in my world too, far out I love this woman. F*$KING Brilliant indeed! 🙂

    Merry Christmas to you too friend! I do hope you are having a wonderful, fun filled, sparkly, unicorn, pony and puppy kissed festive season. Im eating my way through the break, nothing is safe. Ha! We enjoyed our family brunch, opened presents then watched films. Haven’t made mince pies this year, but I’ve eaten a couple. YARM! Today, seeing my bestest friend in the world for the first time in nearly 2 years made me smile, it made me smile so much it hurt. <3

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    Liz
    December 26, 2015 at 6:23 pm

    I don’t think I’ve met my writing muse—writing is always a struggle! Instead I bake and bake. Our Christmas was quiet and lovely. Hope yours was, too. xo

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    ladyfi
    December 27, 2015 at 9:46 pm

    Even muses need a little time off? Wishing you a new year full of good things.

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    Alice @ Hip Foodie Mom
    December 28, 2015 at 9:16 am

    LOVE these songs. deeply moving. Happy New Year to you my friend. . wishing for a peaceful and joyous 2016 for all. xoxoxo

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    ms crankypants
    December 28, 2015 at 11:33 am

    My muse got lazy in Oct 2014 apparently, but I’m BACK [she said with vigor] and so happy to be here! Love your posts (and the weird cat).

    Ms. CP

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    Lorraine @ Not Quite Nigella
    December 28, 2015 at 4:32 pm

    Gorgeous list Kim. I have to say that the pic of Kay is just gorgeous! Such a beauty 🙂 And I do occasionally make mince pies but not that often! 😀 Happy New Year lovely! xxx

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    Marcia @ Menopausal Mother
    December 29, 2015 at 11:42 am

    I went through quite a funk before Christmas, so I understand what you mean here. You and I both know how hard the holidays are when there is an empty chair at the table. I’m glad you were able to find things to bring back your smile. My pugs always make me grin. When Im feeling down, I curl up with them on the sofa and it helps restore my inner peace. Also, for Christmas my husband gave me those calming therapy adult coloring books—and I LOVE them! it really helps me take my mind off my worries and relax. Do you have any of these? I highly recommend them!

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    Phil
    December 29, 2015 at 7:19 pm

    Hi Kim,

    I know. how stressful the holiday season can be to begin with. I know its also hard when a loved one is not there for it. Hope all is well and that you had a good Christmas. Here’s to a good New Year.

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