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Christian Grey Meets Mrs. Robinson



—Sometimes,  not always, I appreciate the act of multi-tasking.  For example,  I find eating dark chocolate and reading a kick ass book simultaneously quite exuberating. A piece of Dove chocolate for every five pages until the bag is gone or the book is finished is what I call F. U. N.   I adore listening to audio books,  like Rob Lowe’s,  Love Life, while walking outdoors.  When Rob talks about plastic Hollywood and Saint Elmo’s Fire, it is oh-so-delicious.  Seriously,  there is something utterly approachable and sexy about him.  Do you agree?


Also, I can go all day without texting,  but when I watch television,  I typically take out my telephone to catch up with girlfriends. I mean,  why the hell would we talk the old fashioned way?


And this is how this story begins.


So,  I’m watching Law and Order ( Special Victims Unit ), which is my newest obsession and during the commercial, I text my girlfriend,  Tia.


     Hey,  wazzzzzzzz up?


     Correcting papers.  I have lots of essays to correct.


     What’s going on with you?


     Watching Law and Order.






     I miss your face.


     Me, too.


I stop texting when Law and Order comes back on.  I watch the rest of it.  It’s the one where Mariska Hargitay  goes undercover in a women’s prison.  Did you know that she’s Jayne Mansfield’s daughter?  Just an interesting tidbit for you if you’re into that kind of thing.


When L & O is finished,  I remember I wanted to ask Tia about going to a movie next week.  I text her hastily, blindly, without my glasses.


      Hey,  you want to go to 50 Shades of Grey next week?


      Haaaa.  Absolutely Not.  Hell No.  Gross.




She doesn’t text back right away,  so I go to my computer room to check my blog, emails, and Twitter account for a couple hours.


After 10 o’clock,  I check my phone. My heart stops.  I gasp.  I slap  my hands over my face like the little dude from Home Alone.


“Son-of-a-bitch!”  I scream.   “NOOOOOOOOOO.”


You see,  I didn’t text Tia.


I texted our 25 year old special education teacher, Luke.

The Text.

The Text.


The name Mrs. Robinson takes on an entirely new meaning:  a creepy, cougar, sexual harassment  meaning.  Thoughts go thru my head at lightning speed.  He might think I’m hitting on him.  He probably thinks I’m a freak.  A married, older woman making moves on a young guy. No.  No.  no.




This scene from The Graduate suddenly flows thru my mind:


Benjamin: Oh my God!

Mrs. Robinson: Pardon?

Benjamin: Oh no, Mrs. Robinson. Oh no.

Mrs. Robinson: What’s wrong?

Benjamin: Mrs. Robinson, you didn’t… I mean, you didn’t expect…

Mrs. Robinson: What?

Benjamin: I mean, you didn’t really think I’d do something like that.

Mrs. Robinson: Like what?

Benjamin: What do you think?

Mrs. Robinson: Well, I don’t know.

All of this goes thru my mind.  All of this keeps me awake that night.

On Monday,  I see Luke standing at our classroom door waiting for the students.

Luke is a good sport.

Luke is a good sport.

We look at one another and burst into a fit of laughter.


—–An important note.  Many women have asked me about my views on this movie because of the CONTROL, dysfunction,  and Domestic Violence.  I want my readers to know that I am not promoting this movie.  I am not saying that signing a contract is okay.  I am not saying that CONTROL is cool.  I am not insinuating that Christian Grey is sexy with a whip.  Women are intelligent & brilliant enough to know that Christian Grey is totally f*cked up,  and he must save himself.  We can only save ourselves…NOT our abusers.   Do you think Mr. Grey is an abuser?

Thoughts?   xxxx

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  • Reply
    Debbie D.
    February 14, 2015 at 9:37 am

    Hilarious! Glad your young male friend has a sense of humour, Kim. 😀 As for Christian Grey, I’d say he’s pretty fucked up, but I’ve only read a few excerpts of the book and don’t plan on seeing the movie. (One reviewer gave it a single star and said it was incredibly boring and silly. Sounds about right, to me!) Whether or not he’s an abuser, would probably depend on how consensual the acts were. On the other hand, he may have “brainwashed” that poor girl. Isn’t she supposed to be an innocent virgin at the beginning? Can’t really offer a substantial opinion without reading the books and I’m not at all interested in doing that. This started out as “Twilight” fan fiction, didn’t it? Yech!
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    February 14, 2015 at 9:47 am

    Too funny!
    I haven’t read the books or seen the movies(and have no intentions to do either), but I have been reading the blogs and comments/concerns and I have been thinking about the controversy a lot.
    I think that its not up to books or movies or video games to teach people right from wrong. Although I don’t agree with certain things or firms of entertainment does not mean they should be banned. Anothe rexample for comparison would be The Graduate film you mentioned… two consenting adults (I have seen this phrase in many of the comments for 50 shades) but if you ask me Mrs. Robinson was manipulative and I certainly don’t agree with young men should be having affairs with older married women (or anyine having affairs)… but it is a movie for entertainment and I am fortunate enough to know that and understand that it isn’t example for my life.
    I do think it sucks that so many people can’t discern for themselves that something is right or wrong, and I hope the attention it is bringing to emotional abuse will help women understand what is and is not safe.

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    Barbara Hammond
    February 14, 2015 at 10:56 am

    After reading Dave Barry’s article about the book, (and laughing til I almost peed my pants), I decided life is too short to waste time one REALLY bad writing. But I highly recommend the column!
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    Carrie Rubin
    February 14, 2015 at 11:09 am

    Haha, that’s so funny! In a mortifying sort of way. 🙂

    I’ve just started watching Law & Order: SVU on Netflix. And yet another show I’m now addicted to. Sigh.
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      My Inner Chick
      February 18, 2015 at 9:04 am

      I’m addicted.
      Mr. L says, “You have hundreds of episodes taped. When will you watch all of them?”
      I answer: “When I’m home sick from work!”
      LOVE Mariska! xx
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    February 14, 2015 at 12:24 pm

    Oh, no!! That is a funny story – glad that Luke was such a good sport!!!
    I read the books but don’t really want to see the movie.
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    February 14, 2015 at 2:21 pm

    Funny,I told my mother that I am going to see the movie tonight.She was pretty quiet about it but then put on facebook”What would you rather your daughter read Fifty Shades of Grey or the Bible” I just commented with a smiley face

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    Joan Peterson
    February 14, 2015 at 2:54 pm

    Did you know that Mariska Hargitay is an advocate against Domestic Violence?

    Love this post by the way. Very funny and I’m not going to the movie nor have I read the book.

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    February 14, 2015 at 3:07 pm

    I have zero interest in the movie…not because I’m not into movies with sex and relationships, intrigue…all that. But, I just don’t have any interest in 50 Shades specifically. I love the part from The Graduate…love that movie. Btw Kim…you are more than welcome to accidentally text me anytime *wink*
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    February 14, 2015 at 3:37 pm

    I don’t know if he is an abuser as I didn’t read the book. I read only 25 pages of the last book and It made me feel so bad. I didn’t even know there were 3 volumes and what it was about. I saw it in the library and borrowed it. I read the first chapter and couldn’t go on because I panicked. I know nothing about it. I panicked in that chapter just reading about how much she loves him and how much she is scared of upsetting him, always trying to guess his mood.
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      My Inner Chick
      February 18, 2015 at 10:42 am

      I can see how a book like this could bring back horrible memories.
      Have I told you lately that the world is SO MUCH sweeter because you are here? XXxxxx
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    Beverly Diehl
    February 14, 2015 at 4:12 pm

    Love you, and found this hilarious. (And I would so go Mrs. Robinson on Luke, he’s adorable, but, yes, awkward!)

    Did read the (first) book, could not read the rest, will not pay to see the movie. While I am totally in favor of people having lots and lots of choices, and they can certainly pay to see this or any other movie, and love it, hate it, whatever, I’m happy that people are speaking up about the serious domestic violence in the book, if (perhaps) not in the movie. Kink and BDSM are NOT abuse; FSOG is some serious gaslighting and emotional abuse.
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      My Inner Chick
      February 18, 2015 at 10:44 am

      all I can add is I’ve become enlightened to new perspectives.
      that is the cool thing about social media, one can learn to see things in an entirely new way.
      For example, after reading the first book, I had no idea DV was hidden inside the words.

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    Michael Ann
    February 14, 2015 at 4:30 pm

    Ha ha! That is sooo something I would do, so I felt your pain sistah! Luke is pretty cute, BTW. I’m glad he was a good sport! I did not read the Grey books nor do I intend to see the movie. Not my kind of thing and I find it disturbing that so many women “of a certain age” read all the books and are so excited about the movie. Just makes you go “Huh?”

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    nan @ lbddiaries
    February 14, 2015 at 4:53 pm

    I never saw The Graduate. Probably because I was too young back then. It was considered a very risqué movie, along the lines of what is now being said about this book and movie. I never caught back up with the movie for some reason. It always sounded boring to me (ho!).

    I did read this book. I remember thinking “How can they make a movie out of this?” I have read enough books similar to this and about this lifestyle to know that this book was an unrealistic look at that lifestyle (D/s). That being said, most people are too embarrassed to admit they’ve read the book anyway because of the supposedly forbidden and torrid topic!

    Is it abuse? If you go by what that lifestyle is about, then no he is not an abuser and she is not a victim. SSC is what is important there. It is supposed to be consensual. I can’t remember enough about the story to recall if she was able to walk away or not! The movie won’t be in our town anyway. Would I see it? Nah. If the book didn’t stick in my memory, it’s not worth watching!

    It’s just a story, fiction, fake. To me it does not promote violence, domestic or otherwise. Then again, that’s just my opinion.
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    lisa thomson-the great escape
    February 14, 2015 at 5:14 pm

    Well, well, Mrs Robinson….you little devil you. He is cute. Haha! I can’t tell you how many times I’ve texted the wrong person without realizing until it was way too late. The graduate is a classic film, no question. Love that you excerpt the dialogue 🙂 I haven’t read 50 Shades so can’t comment on this Mr. Grey character. From the movie trailer I think he’s pretty handsome but aloof, successful men that want to tie me up? Probably not my thang. Great post, Kim! xoxo
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    meditating mummy
    February 14, 2015 at 7:30 pm

    How I enjoyed your post Kim. I wrote about Fifty Shades of Grey when the book first came out. Drivel is what I say. Not going to see it. Have not read it and will not read it. Although I do like Jamie Doran who plays Christian Grey. He’s British and came on a show I love – Once upon a time.
    I eat chocolate like you do, when I read, and when i write. Oh my gosh! I thought the text was hilarious. He’s cute. I didn’t know Marishka Hargitay is the daughter of Jayne Mansfield. Love that you mentioned it.

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    Angie@Angie's Recipes
    February 14, 2015 at 9:19 pm

    LOL…he looks adorable and he seems to have a sense of humour, just like you :-))
    Have a fun weekend!
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    Vidya Sury
    February 14, 2015 at 10:10 pm

    I don’t find any excuse good enough to justify BDSM. So yes, Christian Grey, regardless of why, is an abuser and a control freak.

    I remember reading your texting your phys ed teacher and laughed my head off – and thought hey, what a fab post it would make – and yes, it does! 😀

    Law and Order is one of the best-est! I love trivia too! We get an amazing TV channel that dissects real crimes, how they happened and how they solved it. Fascinating. Sometimes, though, I wonder if it teaches wannabe criminals a few tricks, taking the level of crime up a few notches. Sigh.

    Love you more than chocolate sauce melting on vanilla ice-cream!
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    Gary Sidley
    February 15, 2015 at 2:54 am

    The Graduate is one of my favourite films; I’ve no desire to watch 50 Shades – I read the book and rated it as on of the worst I’d ever read (although it did give me ideas for a Bryan Jones blog post!). I’m sure the film will be crap. And there’s nothing wrong with cougars, although, alas, mine now tend to be aged 70+
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      My Inner Chick
      February 18, 2015 at 11:42 am

      I agree.
      I read 2 of the books and they were CRAP.
      The author hit a nerve w/ women out there (Apparently)
      It just goes to show ya, a book doesn’t need to be good to SELL))

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    Ellen M. Gregg
    February 15, 2015 at 8:21 am

    LOL! 😀 I am so very glad I didn’t have any coffee in my mouth when I got to the part that Tia wasn’t the recipient of your text. Holy Hannah, that’s funny! Luke is definitely a good sport – and also adorable. 😉

    Is Christian Grey an abuser? No. Does he have some psychological dysfunction? Absolutely.

    The 50 Shades trilogy provides a “safe” vehicle for [probably mostly] women to fantasize about something they may equate with dangerous in a titillating sense. It also provides that old-fashioned happily-ever-after notion that love – and the right girl – can tame “the beast.”

    I think that’s where the true danger lies in the story. For those who don’t have the background, knowledge, or foresight to know otherwise, it suggests, in its sensually fictitious way, that we can be both lover and therapist. Real-life psychological disease of that depth isn’t fully treatable with love. Might it help? I’d like to think so. However, in cases like Christian’s it would be very rare indeed for it to provide a “cure.”

    And as for Rob Lowe…. I complete agree about his approachability. He has that air about him that suggests he’d be happy to have a cup of coffee with you and chat about all manner of things, given the right set of circumstances. I still crush on him, too. 🙂


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      Ellen M. Gregg
      February 15, 2015 at 8:29 am

      P.S. I read this trilogy for a job. I was working as an assistant and marketing manager for an author, and she wanted to know what it was about the series (she was writing her own trilogy) that had millions of copies flying off the shelves. As my Ya-Yas said, because none of them have any interest in the books or movie, I “took one for the team.” I suppose someone had to. 😉

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      My Inner Chick
      February 18, 2015 at 11:43 am

      I want to have coffee w/ Rob Lowe. He is on my list “Who to have coffee or wine with!”

      And, of course, YOU! xxxx
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    Jennifer Wolfe
    February 15, 2015 at 9:00 am

    Oh that made me giggle! I haven’t read the book nor do I plan on seeing the movie. I’ve got no proem with consenting adults doing what they want, but I do think about our young women just beginning relationships and wonder if this offers relationship models that are…confusing at best.
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    February 15, 2015 at 12:44 pm

    Kim, you’re fortunate your handsome young man is such a good sport!! He probably already knows you’re head-over-heels for Mr. L., anyway!

    No, I didn’t read this book. No, I won’t go see the movie. Just a personal decision. I have far too little free time on my hands as it is, and wasting it doing meaningless things isn’t an option! I do like the idea of eating a Dove chocolate for every five pages you read, though! xoxo
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    February 15, 2015 at 2:17 pm

    Love you!

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    Nicky Claydon
    February 15, 2015 at 2:48 pm

    So funny. Reading this really made me smile. Read the first chapter of the book and really couldn’t be bothered after that as quickly realised I didn’t want to waste my time on it. Been amazed at the amount of my friends rushing to see it on Friday night – won’t be doing that either. Confirmed my decision after seeing lots of reviews which sum up exactly what I suspected. Great that Luke has such a great sense of humour like you. Thanks again, brightened my Sunday evening 🙂
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    Chris Carter
    February 15, 2015 at 8:04 pm

    Well, as horrifying as that sounds- just THINK if you texted *anything else* girlfriendish??!! Now, surely that movie was the WORST one to text about…. to a cute young man, but what if you shared some personal stuff that was meant ONLY for your gal pal? Oh la la…. NO!

    Too funny, this story!!

    I haven’t read the books, and I think I am going to take my twisted mother to see the movie this week, just so we don’t have to talk to each other. LOL Yup… gonna take my MOM.

    Very curious about this crazy movie. I’m sure I will be sick about seeing it- and completely repelled at the thought of it after- but ….

    Did you see it?
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    February 16, 2015 at 5:49 am

    Oh man… I hate when you text the wrong person.. it happens so much more often then you want to think (well to me anyway)
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    February 16, 2015 at 6:49 am

    Funny story…..Luke looks like a great sport! No interest in the movie or book. Kind of reminds me of a movie made years back called 9 1/2 weeks…..
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    Valentine Logar
    February 16, 2015 at 7:14 am

    I laughed so hard when I read this I nearly fell out of my office chair. It is good thing he is a good sport.

    As to your other question, yes he is both a stalker and an abuser. The relationship depicted in that poorly written piece of trash is not a ‘normal’ BDSM relationship. Now I know, many would think ‘what is normal’, however the alternative lifestyle does exist and it is not one that is depicted in that book. There are huge differences.
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    February 16, 2015 at 8:32 am

    This is what I wrote on my FB timeline. What I’m really against is the media hyping the film and the relationship as romance and love, when it isn’t:

    Dear Friends,
    Please HELP! I have a young and naive friend, who has fallen into an abusive relationship she can’t say no to. Her lover is an older man with loads of money. He stalks her, threatens her with violence and torture if she doesn’t do what he says, micromanages her life and has cut her off from friends and family.
    In the bedroom he rapes and abuses her, makes her do painful acts against her will. She’s even been forced to sign a contract agreeing to do whatever he wants. We’ve all told her to leave him, but she has no self-confidence and can’t get out of her terrible abusive relationship. Do you have any advice?
    P.S. Her name is Anastasia Steele and his is Christian Grey and they are fictional characters. Their relationship is being hyped by the media as being romantic in the film Fifty Shades of Grey. Yes – you can read what you like and do what you like in your relationships. But it makes me sick to see the film industry normalizing violence within sexual relationships and glorifying sexual bullying without mutual consent. Today, on Valentine’s Day, my wish is that our young women and men find love and intimacy with respect – and not within the confines of an abusive relationship.
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    Deborah Batterman
    February 16, 2015 at 10:26 am

    This is very funny . . . Have not read the book (my daughter said it wasn’t very good). Am not rushing out to see the movie. But I might get around to it when it’s available for streaming, etc.
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    Carolyn Hughes
    February 16, 2015 at 1:43 pm

    Oh gosh! Just love your sense of humor and honesty at the same time!
    I must be one of the few people on the planet who hasn’t read 50 shades – because I’ve heard so much about it now I really don’t want to. 🙂
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    Anna @ shenANNAgans
    February 16, 2015 at 1:48 pm

    I knew I was in for a goodun with the title of this post, was smiling straight up. 🙂
    YES… Totes agree, Rob Lowe is an UBER babe.
    Mortifying, but soooooo something that would happen to me, on Saturday I sent a text message to a boy I like, a boy I actually hope to date some time soon, that was meant for my bestest friend. I sounded very creepy and very inappropriate – All innocent I promise, I slipped out of a Bikram Yoga pose, but knee burn that ended with a butt bruise really doesn’t sound great. Ha!
    Good your colleague has a sense of humour, he is kinda cute actually.
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    Janine Huldie
    February 16, 2015 at 2:17 pm

    I didn’t see the movie, but read the books and couldn’t help, but smile reading your mix up with the texts. This is so something I would have done and definitely glad you both could laugh over it though.
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    Lorraine @ Not Quite Nigella
    February 16, 2015 at 4:17 pm

    Oh I’m so glad that you both could have a laugh about it! Imagine if he took it seriously? Love your stories and I’ve sent many the wrong text to the wrong person so I can relate.
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    Kristi Campbell
    February 16, 2015 at 7:12 pm

    OMG I can’t believe you texted young hot dude instead of your GF!! HAHAH And to 50 Shades. I dunno. I read some of the books and enjoyed the parts I read while also groaning because how many paragraphs ended with “with gray eyes gazing into blue” or whatever it was. As far as him being an abuser? I dunno. Maybe. I don’t think that 2 people consenting to anything ON PURPOSE is abuse or control but he did control her a bit and well. I dunno. Nobody ever knows what’s wrong unless they live it. Maybe. Ugh. Great post though Kim!!!xxxooo
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    February 16, 2015 at 8:13 pm

    You’re cute. So is Luke 🙂 50 Shades is not my thing. SVU, on the other hand, is a fave with me too xx
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      My Inner Chick
      February 18, 2015 at 11:56 am

      I know.
      SVU is my newest addiction. I go soooo overboard on such things. xx
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        February 18, 2015 at 4:02 pm

        Kimmy, in Australia they also play old episodes of SVU from more than 10 years ago, when Olivia had a short, spunky haircut. I especially like watching those episodes, and Elliot was in his prime too (I miss Elliot). When my Dad was alive he used to watch SVU too, and for some reason he took a set against Detective Munch and he used to mutter whenever Munch was on screen. Always made me laugh when he was muttering about Munch. xx
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          My Inner Chick
          February 18, 2015 at 10:28 pm

          Munch! How funny.
          Yes, I am watching all of the old ones, too….catching up!
          Mariska is fabulous & Elliot is adorable! WOW.
          I have MANY left to watch, so my addiction is being fed! xxxxxx
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    Hotly Spiced
    February 16, 2015 at 8:25 pm

    Of all the movies to pick when you’re texting the wrong person! That is a very funny story, Kim. I have not read the books nor will I be seeing the movie – I don’t think there’s anything edifying to view/read xx
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    February 17, 2015 at 2:53 am

    What a funny read Kim, thank you for sharing it to give us all a uplifting smile. I think I must be one of 10 people the world over who hasn’t read the book or seen the movie. Must be living under a rock.
    Have a beautiful love filled and happy day my dear.
    So sorry I have not replied to your email yet. It has been ridiculously business with the neighbourhood watch and patrolling initiative plus my Pete has been home which is awesome and I will be whisked away with him on a little trip. All very exciting.
    🙂 Mandy xoxoxoxo
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    February 17, 2015 at 6:42 am

    You are hilarious!
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    February 17, 2015 at 11:29 am

    Dear Kim, I told my husband about your absolutely hilarious blogpost (he is a primary school teacher) and we shared a good laugh…you certainly have a way with words, love it when your posts make me smile.
    I am a huge fan of Mariska Hargitay as well – love watching her in Law and Order (Special Victims Unit) – I even watched the episode you described – the world is a rather small place, isn´t it?!
    Thank you for a wonderful post, dear friend!
    Feel yourself hugged,

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    Charlene Ross
    February 17, 2015 at 2:27 pm

    THIS = BEST THING EVER! (Oh how I love you, Kim. And I know your sweet Kay was up in heaven watching and laughing her ass off when this happened.) 🙂

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      My Inner Chick
      February 18, 2015 at 10:31 pm

      funny you should mention that about Kay.
      When this first happened, I wanted to call her SOOOO badly. I can hear her snorting now! She would have LOVED this.

      Luv U.
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    Elisabeth Kinsey
    February 17, 2015 at 3:36 pm

    Very funny! And Luke is not harmful on the eyes…:)

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    February 17, 2015 at 4:28 pm

    Considering I gave the 50 Shades book a too-kind two-start review, I won’t even get started on that count 😉 Though I have heard the movie improves on the book in some ways…
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    February 17, 2015 at 5:10 pm

    Kim, this post had me in stitches! I can imagine how mortified you must have been upon realizing the text had not gone to Tia! OMG, indeed! If I had a nickel for every time I’ve sent the wrong person emails or texts! Would you believe I have not read or seen the movie “50 Shades…” It does not interest me in the least. The Graduate, on the other hand, was a fantastic film! I fell in love with young Dustin Hoffman the first time I saw it. And that last scene! Ah, to be young and in love! Kisses to you from Roxy and me! 🙂

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    February 17, 2015 at 6:00 pm

    This was just too funny Mrs, Robinson 🙂
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    February 18, 2015 at 5:37 pm

    I suppose the text could have been a lot worse! I once texted my son’s barber, thinking it was my husband. Luckily it was something mundane like “Please pick up some milk.”
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    February 19, 2015 at 6:07 am

    Sometimes Freudian slips happen Kim – he is pretty darn cute after all …. ahem ….

    I didn’t read 50 Shades of bad writing so I have no desire to even see the movie.
    I did read an article somewhere though that had me peeing my pants and it was a list of things that she rather would do than see the movie and one was “I’d rather teach Bruce Jenner how to use a tampon”
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    Enchanted Seashells, Confessions of a Tugboat Captain's Wife
    February 20, 2015 at 9:39 am

    I wrote my own take on the book/film, but I haven’t read it nor will I see it, cos I think it perpetuates brutality and I’m more into love and romance. I feel bad for young teenage girls who might be swayed into doing things sexually they don’t really feel comfortable with just so they can emulate a film
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    Tracy @ Crazy As Normal
    February 20, 2015 at 12:34 pm

    Um. There couldn’t be a more perfect introduction for a first time reader. Ever. You win the internet today. 😀
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    February 20, 2015 at 1:31 pm

    hahaha… the texting part is epic!!!! lol

    Also there’s talk about that book and movie pretty much everywhere. The more I hear about it, the less I want to watch/read it… for what I’ve read/heard in reviews, the writing is just lame and the movie doesn’t do justice to the already lameness of the book because, well, it’s just as lame.

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    February 20, 2015 at 6:39 pm

    The text exchange was hilarious, luckily he is a good sport. Chocolate and a good book or movie sounds fantastic however I wouldn’t pay to see Shades of Grey. If it’s ever on Netflix or Hulu I might watch it. Maybe.

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    February 21, 2015 at 12:27 am

    That’s fantastic! I make faux pas like this regularly. Blush x

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    Shay from Trashy Blog
    February 21, 2015 at 10:51 am

    OMG, Kim, how I love this post soooo much! It sounds like something my best friend would do; she is forever texting inappropriate stuff to the wrong person. I DO have to say, however, that I’m probably not alone in thinking that Luke is someone that I, personally, would love to take to a screening of 50 Shades…and I happen to be semi-happily married. *swoon*
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    Barbara @ Barbara Bakes
    February 23, 2015 at 8:01 pm

    This was truly laugh out loud funny. I love that you both cracked up about it when you saw each other the next time. Sounds like a great kid.
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    February 26, 2015 at 9:24 pm

    That’s hilarious Kim!
    I read the first two books and gave up on number 3… I couldn’t take anymore the “Stop bitting your lips…”
    I think Mr. Grey has many personal issues he needs to look after but it’s the part where he says that Anastasia will save him that revolts me. As you said, you can only save yourself.
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