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A Few Of My Distractions & Favorite Things

–This quote by Goldberg excites me.

I enjoy making English Shortbread for Mr. Liverpool.

I LOooove this pen set by Jodene from New York.  THANK YOU, dear!  X

If you are wondering why LIPS are such a big deal on my blog …etc…it is because my sister, Kay, was known for her big pink lips!  She gave me this book about 4 years ago.

The Unabridged Journals of Sylvia Plath is in my TOP 10 books of all time along w/ To Kill A Mockingbird,  Evening, Lolita, Stones From The River & Ariel.

My mission is to RISE with other women to END Domestic Violence  &  BREAK the SILENCE.  Forever & ever & ever…

I  appreciate this silk scarf from Patti.  It is soooooo very Kay.  Thank you.  Xxxx

My all time favorite photo of Kay crossing over…I’ll meet you on the other side, my love.

love this video by Maggie from Silence UnSilenced.  Kay and I are in the video.  NEVER STAY SILENT!  NEVER.  never.   never. NEVER  Never.

It is a healing experience being part of the KAY MARIE SISTO MEMORIAL WALK to END domestic violence:  Saturday, June 1, 2013 @ 11:00 AM

Click Here To Donate & In Comment Box say– \”FOR KAY\’S WALK!

Click Here To Register

My Wish List for The Kay Marie Sisto Memorial Walk:

City Permit– $120.00

Advertising– $250.00

Tent– $500.00

Printing– $650.00

Postage– $500.00

T-Shirts– $1500.00

PA System– $200.00


~~~Any of my readers who donate  will be receiving homemade ultimate chocolate
chip cookies from my mommy (Saint Shirley) and Kim Sisto Robinson  (MEeeee)


~~~~Get Help NOW for Verbal Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Sexual Abuse, Physical Abuse–800-799-SAFE (7233) or at TTY 1-800-787-3224. PLEASE Do Not Wait One. More. Solitary. Day.










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    March 3, 2013 at 6:34 pm

    Gorgeous scarf! Your friends love you lots and lots to send such beautiful gifts!

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    March 3, 2013 at 7:06 pm

    You and Kay are so loved.
    I need to seek out the Plath book!
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    The Bipolar Diva
    March 3, 2013 at 10:32 pm

    That scarf is so COOL! I couldn’t watch the video much at all. When she got to the sign about boys being sexually abused, I stopped. My grandson was one of those boys. He was so young, so perfect, and now he sees the world much differently. We’ve tracked down the animal that did those things to him. Now we wait. We wait for the detective to set the trap. We wait, and we cry, and we won’t leave the detective alone until the monster is arrested.
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    Vidya Sury
    March 3, 2013 at 10:33 pm

    I was loving the photos one by one – Natalie’s quote is a classic – and I have a weakness for photos of paper coming out of the typewriter – when I read “I’ll meet you on the other side, my love” and burst out crying. So moving, Kim.

    Love, love, love you!

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    Elephant's Child
    March 3, 2013 at 10:37 pm

    I have made a small donation towards this wonderful, wonderful cause. I love your favourite things, and I too could not see them without tears flooding my face.

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    March 3, 2013 at 11:26 pm

    Kim, I had no idea about the meaning of the lips. What a wonderful tribute. Love the book Kay gave you, and the scarf, too. Absolutely gorgeous! The photo of Kay on the bridge, though, gave me goosebumps. Not sure why.
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    Lorraine @ Not Quite Nigella
    March 3, 2013 at 11:31 pm

    That photo of Kay is heart wrenchingly beautiful. I can see why you love it so much. She looks so happy 🙂 xxx
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    Goodness and Grit
    March 4, 2013 at 12:03 am

    Not to be an echo, but DAMN that scarf is fabulous!

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    March 4, 2013 at 6:05 am

    A wonderful and moving video. You are doing so much good Kim. Love the scarf and I can identify with the lips!!!!!
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    Ellen M. Gregg
    March 4, 2013 at 7:02 am

    Mmm… Ever more books for my TBR list. Beautiful pink-and-ink inscription. Beautiful scarf. Beautiful crossing over photo. Beautiful you.

    If I lived closer, I’d join you on June 1. (And the thought, “never say never” just streamed through my head. Who knows? Maybe I’ll join you on June 1 anyway.) xoxo

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    March 4, 2013 at 7:42 am

    The picture of Kay on the bridge is so beautiful, I am still crying. yes, she is waiting for you and in the meantime she is watching all the good work you are doing to raise awareness. You will never know all the women you have helped or lives you have saved in her honor.
    God bless you.
    Much love
    Carrie xxoo

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    March 4, 2013 at 8:35 am

    “say yes, stay alive, be awake” such an inspirational quote! Thanks for sharing your pictures and quotes, I’ve copied this one and will use it on a graphic in the future. (non-commercial) By the way, I really like that picture of your sister crossing that bridge, beautiful light, a truly lomographical artwork. Did you shoot that?
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    Terri Sonoda
    March 4, 2013 at 8:58 am

    LOVE the Natalie Goldberg quote! OMG that’s my life right there. Wow. And I’m drooling over those English shortbread cookies. You did it Chica. You made me drool…..yet again. Thanks. LOVE YOU! XOXOs
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    Lady Jennie
    March 4, 2013 at 8:58 am

    Hi dear, it looks like I have to walk/run in order to donate? Can I donate without doing that?
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    Jodi @ Heal Now and Forever
    March 4, 2013 at 9:18 am

    Be a dear and put your arms around yourself for a big hug from me! Please email me a mailing address I can send a donation. I want you to have the FULL amount. (rather than the credit card companies) 🙂

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    Impulsive Addict
    March 4, 2013 at 9:30 am

    I’m in love with that scarf! It’s so perfect for you. And I really love that pic of your sister. She is so proud of you right now. I hope you know that.

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    March 4, 2013 at 9:36 am

    Beautiful post as always Kim. Love the photo of Kay. I want to donate but it seems you have to register for the walk to get through the process. Is there another way? shoot me a message on fb.
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    March 4, 2013 at 10:41 am

    Oh! The Sylvia Plath book – I haven’t seen that before. She is one of my daughter’s favorite (my daughter is waayyy more literary than I am – I’m trying to catch up but I think it might be impossible!) Anyway, I will need to find a copy to give her for her upcoming 20th birthday 🙂
    Looking forward to reading about the success of your memorial walk/run!
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    Sandy Webb
    March 4, 2013 at 10:41 am

    Gret post Kim! How are you sweetie? I feel like I haven’t been around much lately and I apologize for that. Sending big giant hugs your way!
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    Liz @ A Nut in a Nutshell
    March 4, 2013 at 12:39 pm

    You are the voice of hope for so many. Kay is smiling. 🙂
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    Choc Chip Uru
    March 4, 2013 at 1:39 pm

    That photo is lovely my friend, I hope she is like that looking down on you now 🙂
    Your beautiful looking pen set is also very cool!

    Choc Chip Uru
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    nan @ lbddiaries
    March 4, 2013 at 3:59 pm

    Oooooo, I will do anything for those chocolate chip cookies but even if they were not an incentive, I will gladly donate to a cause like this one. And I might be able to be a big person and say, “No, no, don’t need the cookies” I am not that person. Heard too many good things about those cookies.

    Love your fave things and love that you gave us an opportunity to give for Kay!
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    March 4, 2013 at 4:12 pm

    Kim- great blog. do you know that I am on that video? That gave me the chills to see again, but I spoke out. love you. xxox
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    Debi Pasricha
    March 4, 2013 at 4:24 pm

    You have some beautiful favorite things-especially love the scarf, the pens, your book list, and your pic of Kay. XX
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    March 4, 2013 at 5:43 pm

    That picture of Kay is perfect…you two will eventually be united…and you’ll both be at peace. LOVE the scarf, too…and must check out a couple of your book recommendations 🙂
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    March 4, 2013 at 6:15 pm

    MOM & DAD

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    Red Dwyer
    March 4, 2013 at 7:59 pm

    I spoke out. 18NOV1990. A little before the curve.

    I love you, Kimmy. Check for an email from me <3
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      My Inner Chick
      March 7, 2013 at 7:53 pm

      you rock like no other.

      Love UUUUUuuuuuu.

      I RISE with YOU. Xxxxx

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    Mandy - The Complete Cook Book
    March 5, 2013 at 1:06 am

    I love all of your favourite things! Beautiful!
    🙂 Mandy xoxoxo
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    March 5, 2013 at 4:13 am

    do you believe – until this picture I didn’t know what english shortbread looked like…

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    March 5, 2013 at 7:36 am

    What an amazing collection and SO full of meaning. I get the lips now! Makes perfect sense and I would agree that lips are truly one of the most amazing creations – Kay got that spot on. Sweet kisses for our children, passionate kisses for… our pets (tee hee!). As always, thank you for sharing your loves and life with us.

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    Jann Huizenga
    March 5, 2013 at 8:54 am

    Yes, your sweet Kay is looking down on you with a smile on her pretty pink lips and pride in her eyes. I love the video and your part in it. You inspire me, having created love and beauty and strength out of such tragedy. Thank you for being you. Natalie Goldberg was my first writing teacher in 2 incredible Santa Fe workshops!!!
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    March 5, 2013 at 12:13 pm

    You know that you are a beautiful and strong soul don’t you?
    Well I just reminded you.

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    March 5, 2013 at 3:41 pm

    Love, love, love… you you you… always always always. Thanks for reminding me who you are and who I am. xo
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    March 5, 2013 at 4:45 pm

    A group of women began to meet on Saturday mornings so we could all tell our story. We created a safe place for women to tell their stories completely, without interruption of any sort, and with trusted support and confidentially. Each one could volunteer to take the hour totally for herself. Unless they didn’t want to. Or couldn’t. Some women needed up to three consecutive weeks – 5 years at a time. It didn’t matter.

    All of us marvelled over the fact that we had never had the opportunity to speak our story from beginning to end. We did it through tears, laughter or wails. We appreciated NO interruptions – no, no hugs until after. Each woman, amidst the silent and loving support of other women, came through her journey and realized her beauty. We all came away with renewed strength.

    I could not believe the abuse! And the number of women who’ve had abortions due to abuse and NO ONE encouraged them or offered to help them with private ceremonies needed to honour the lives of these little souls.

    Yes, silence murders.
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    Blond Duck
    March 5, 2013 at 5:29 pm

    Amen to Natalie. I recently had a lady in my critique group ask me to be her writing coach. It makes me feel like I could really make a living as a writer!
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    Kelly @ Inspired Edibles
    March 5, 2013 at 8:39 pm

    “If you can capture the way things really are, that’s all the poetry you’ll ever need.”

    Natalie Goldberg –

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    March 5, 2013 at 11:32 pm

    All wonderful images Kim! These are snippets of your life … big and small … converge into something great! Beautiful picture of your sister Kay.
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    Valentine Logar
    March 6, 2013 at 5:24 am

    I love you. Please e-mail me for a donation, I would rather send the money to you than through the credit card company. Also still want to coordinate time with you, if possible I am coming up for this walk!

    I am still crying at the pictures. I spoke out, years ago before it was safe and I continue to do so.

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    March 6, 2013 at 5:50 am

    The scarf is gorgeous and so is Kay.
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    March 6, 2013 at 7:46 am

    So lovely to get to know you a little better each time you post. Keep doing what you do! -Jennifer
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    Pure Complex
    March 6, 2013 at 9:10 am

    I love the message in this post. But then again, your post always seem to inspire me ALWAYS
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    March 6, 2013 at 9:14 am

    What a beautiful photo of Kay on the bridge! And I love the scarf, though I’ve never considered myself a “scarf person”! Blessings to you, Kim, and long-distance HUGS!!
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    March 6, 2013 at 5:36 pm

    I am sharing this post with as many as I can. Love you keep going.
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    Unknown Mami
    March 6, 2013 at 6:24 pm

    I LOVE that video. Love it!
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    March 6, 2013 at 6:32 pm

    That quote excites me, too. (And — Kay’s so pretty.)
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      My Inner Chick
      March 8, 2013 at 5:50 am

      I agree with both of your statements, Emily Xxxx love

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    March 6, 2013 at 8:24 pm

    You are amazing. And strong. And someone I’d love to have for a sister. Don’t every stop the fight. You are making a difference.

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    March 7, 2013 at 9:14 am

    So many lovely distractions! My daughter would love those lipstick pens.

    And I love that I rise! Such a strong message from a strong woman.
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    Pat Scattergood
    March 7, 2013 at 1:06 pm

    Powerful video. Love the scarf.
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    Beverly Diehl
    March 7, 2013 at 3:50 pm

    Beautiful, all. As soon as Uncle Sam remembers me, I’ll remember you & Kay. Love the scarf, love the picture of Kay crossing over.

    We ALL rise.
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    March 7, 2013 at 8:15 pm

    Those cookies look so yummy!!! I just adore the picture of Kay on the bridge.

    You are one of the most amazing women I have ever come in contact with. You are doing such great things. I would love to order a shirt, will they be available online to order?
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    March 8, 2013 at 1:08 pm

    Thinking of you on this day that observes ‘violence against women’ and the efforts to change the statistics. The picture of Kay crossing the bridge and looking over her shoulder is so mesmerising. I can almost feel her silent plea.
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    Corinne Rodrigues
    March 9, 2013 at 9:43 am

    I’m eying those pens! 😉 I had no idea about the pink lips – now I know how significant that is. I so respect all you are doing to keep Kay’s memory alive and fight domestic abuse, Kim.
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    March 9, 2013 at 4:52 pm

    Good luck with this.
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    Annette Molitor
    March 9, 2013 at 8:09 pm

    When I see the pic of Kay crossing the bridge I see her entering a spirit world.
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    lisa thomson
    March 10, 2013 at 4:30 pm

    What a great blog you have and such an important purpose! I’m happy to meet you. We love many of the same movies and I’m also a writer. I’ll definitely be back to see what you’re up to. p.s. I found you on Naked Girl in a Dress 🙂
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    March 10, 2013 at 8:22 pm

    What a beautiful picture of Kay. Truly. And the shortbread?

    You are an amazing person my friend.

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    Kim Gagnon
    March 14, 2013 at 7:04 pm

    Love you and all your blog friends who read and support you!

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      March 15, 2013 at 10:27 am

      Love you, too, Kimmy 🙂 xx

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    Girl with a New Life
    March 15, 2013 at 7:59 am

    I am always so impressed by how full your life is of love and support despite the tragedy you have experienced.

    You are brave.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      March 15, 2013 at 10:27 am

      Ooo, I do not feel brave. AT. ALL.

      But I thank you for your kind words. Xx

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    March 19, 2013 at 8:01 pm

    Kim, there’s so much to love about this post! But that photo of Kay! Oh my goodness, what a stunner, you beautiful sis! That hair! Those eyes! She is so gorgeous! So gorgeous! I would wear that scarf every day. Every.Day. I tell you. It is so chic! Oo la la! And the little shortbread cookies. That lucky Mr. Liverpool and Charlie! Roxy wishes she could sink her tiny teeth into one of your cookies, and so do I! Love you! 🙂

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      My Inner Chick
      March 20, 2013 at 4:47 am

      Love Love Love when you visit me, sweet Bella.

      Love you back. How is Roxy? you? Life? love? xxxx
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    April 16, 2013 at 3:43 am

    So sorry to read about the loss of your sister :(. Glad you have some nice things to remember her beauty by and an important cause to work towards that will honour her, you and your family. The best to you! xx
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