–When
you are silent about domestic abuse, you become part of the abuse itself. Silence is a killer I should know; it murdered my sister. —Kim Sisto Robinson
Thank
you to my family & friends for being part of this Domestic Violence Video
to End the Silence.
It was difficult
to go back to that horrendous, dark day, but we got through it as we always do…Together.
I love you more than all of the Dove Chocolate
in the Universe, 10 white tigers in the Kenyan moonlight, & every book
written by Elizabeth Berg.
–My sister & soul-mate was murdered by Mike Peterson on May 26, 2010. The sun dried up. The world is Less without her.
~~~~Get Help NOW for Verbal Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Sexual Abuse, Physical Abuse, Finacial Abuse- or any other kinds of abuse…..800-799-SAFE (7233) or at TTY 1-800-787-3224.
http://www.thehotline.org/get-help/help-in-your-area/ PLEASE Do Not Wait One. More. Solitary. Day.
Powerful. Moving. Tragic. Beautiful. You are all amazing.
Kim, I love you and I commend you. I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m so grateful for all that you are and all that you bring to ALL THAT IS! I would like to share this at https://www.facebook.com/DangerousLinda. OXOXOXXOXO
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Here we are, Kim, in nations where we have the freedom to speak up and use our voice. In this part of the world silence is an ugly form of avoidance, irresponsibility and selfishness.
Those of us who can speak up, do so for those who cannot.
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My heart breaks for you.
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So very very moving. Painfully so.
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I would like to write something for you but my heart is in my throat. I’m choked up. Tears in eyes, running down face. So, so powerful. I just wish it were not necessary. For everyone in the video.
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Heart wrenching and powerful and devastating just as it needs to be.
Unholy silences destroy.
Thanking God for your roar. You are saving lives, I’m sure.
(hug) from rainy Portland
It’s so powerful hearing your voice.
Love you.
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So very affecting and emotional. Wow.
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Kim, I wasn’t able to view it on my phone but will watch it as soon as I can get to and internet connection. I am sure it is a powerful message. Whenever I have a woman visit my site who has every typical excuses for not leaving her abuser I direct her over here. No one delivers the message with more passion and raw emotion, than you. You are making a difference. YOU are saving lives!
It just so happens this was my post today
Silence can say so much.
Silence tells the victim they are alone, they don’t matter, they deserve the abuse
Silence gives the abuser the power to continue the abuse
The only way to end abuse is to end the silence,
Stop blaming and shaming the victim into silence
Stand proudly and speak loudly against abuse and
Put the blame and shame where it belongs.
You inspire me to speak loudly and proudly about domestic violence.
Hugs from Canada
Carrie
earlier i had this notion that domestic abuse only happens in the Asian countries and that the western world with its powerful women is free of it!!!
but i guess this is prevalent everywhere!!
a powerful video!!
and love to you..i knw how it is to lose dear ones in a such a sad manner!!
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Yes. This.
Your big heart, your family’s big heart, you put it all here, for Kay, and for all the women out there who can still save their lives. You are amazing.
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Silence is a killer – Yes indeed that’s really true.
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Oh Kim.
There are big fat tears rolling down my cheeks again. The work that you and your family do is completely amazing.
You are all heroes. And I am so so sorry that you had to be.
Hurting for you, hurting with you. Always.
I think of you and yours when I take a crisis call from people with domestic violence in their lives. I so hope that I can make a difference and keep one family from the pain that is yours.
Kim, thank you for naming the issue: keeping silent. Keeping silent for fear of not looking good, for fear of avoiding looking bad. And here’s my stand for you: that one day when it feels OK by you that you forgive yourself, forgive yourself for being human. Love and hugs, Narelle xx
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Keep spreading the message. I love the video.
Bow,
Jodi
xxx
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Kudos Kim, to you and your family for having such a powerful voice for so many people! Kay lives on strong in all of you, always.
Mandy xo
Love, love, love,
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You are so brave and are doing something that will save lives….This video just hits the heart full force…..
As always Kim I can say only one thing to you and to all your family, I am here and I mourn with you and for you. I have been where your sister was, I was lucky I ran before it was to late, before he could kill me. You are right, our silence fills oceans with our tears.
I love you
Val
Sending you hugs and lots of love. I pray that you never lose your voice.
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Kim,
The video is powerful, moving, and raw. It is so because it is real. It is genuine. You gave me glimpse of what was going on in your head, and as a result, I could feel a pain in my heart as those thoughts spilled out from your voice.
“Once you witness an injustice, you are no longer an observer but a participant.”
~ June Callwood ~
I found that quote on Aurora Morealist’s blog the other day, and if I could add to that quote it would be, “And once we are a participant, we can no longer be silent.”
Blessings to you and your family, for not only dealing with a tragedy that can never fully heal the wounds, but for also showing incredible strength and purpose in this life shattering tragedy to help someone else. There is no doubt in my mind Kim, that your work has already saved others, and will continue to do so.
Phil
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Kim, your poem is absolutely heart-shattering. What shines through with full force in this video is how beautiful your family is. I love and admire each and every one of you.
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Hugs and Prayers for you and your family, Kim. Such a moving, heart-rending piece here!
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So much courage and heart-breaking honesty here.
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Kim,
Oh my god, this made me cry. Your words and the images and stories of your sister. You all are right – BREAK THE SILENCE. As I was watching the above video, the picture slide show of your sister (on the right hand bar of this page) was playing & I just started crying. I did not know her. But I have heard Kay’s story, and so many others, and it makes me cry. And then you have to stop crying & BREAK THE SILENCE. It is scary, hard work but IT HAS TO BE DONE.
Thank you for sharing your words and this video and empowering people.
I have shared this through Twitter and facebook. xoxo
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Kim,
TV, it should be on TV. It’s
message is so raw with your
feelings of love and loss.
i believe you message is a life
saver and should be heard.
You all just amaze me. Love you xxoo
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Just beautiful Kim. It is such an important message to get out there. If through this you help just one person it will be worth the painful memories that were stirred up.
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Oh, Kim. This is powerful. It’s so difficult to listen, yet so very important to hear. And hear it we must. All of it. Thank you for persisting in getting the message out. God bless you and your family.
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I am proud of you Kimmers, Love you!
So well done, my friend. You are helping to break the silence…keep it up. I see your strength.
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You say so much with so few words, but so powerfully. Beautiful, Kim.
Kim, What a powerful video. What a powerful message. I hope women listen, if only one. If only one.
Kim, I don’t know what happened, but I’ve been subscribing to your blog and something must’ve happened because I stopped receiving notifications of posts. Anyway, glad I just figured it out and resubscribed. Sorry I’ve missed a few, but will try to go back and read soon.
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Never forget, never be silent, never think that you’re alone xxx
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This is heartbreaking and powerful. You are doing so much good out of your heartache.
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Powerful voice, message, LOVE, hurt, anguish. Tears. I don’t know what else to stay.
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I am so sorry for your loss. I’ve endured a few losses myself and I know how heart wrenching it is.
Your tribute to your sister is beautiful!
xxoo,
RMW
Silent hugs to you Kim. Your voice is heard. xoxo
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Your voice gives courage to so many. Thank you.
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It always chills me when I think of victims of domestic abuse, who are often too frightened to say anything, certainly at the time the abuse is happening. I have some knowledge of this area, and its one I go into with a heavy heart. Your gutsy and tireless campaign against this evil and the people who perpetrate it always has my support and my admiration.
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Blessed are they who know you, hear your voice and read your blog.
My Mother was a victim of domestic violence and remained silent. For five years, she tolerated being used as an ashtray in the places that hurt the most, and other unspeakable violent acts.
It is soothing to see the video and the support.
Love you more than twenty temple lotus ponds, Kim. Hugs and love!
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Powerful. Beautiful. Heartbreaking. Perfect. This video is a blessing.
xo.
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Very powerful Kim. I’m sharing this on Twitter … for those who still need to break the silence of abuse. Thank you for sharing …
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Sending many hugs!
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Thank you for all you do, Kim. I am so grateful that my daughter is leaving a relationship that has gradually turned into one of emotional abuse. She has never been in harm’s way, but she was silent in the face of increasing put-downs of herself and lost some of her self esteem in the process. Now that she has moved back to Minnesota from Pennsylvania, she is away from his hurtful words. By breaking the silence and fighting back, she has regained her self esteem and has become a stronger young woman. Being a single mom will be hard. But it won’t be as hard as what she has gone through. I never thought I would see a child of mine go through such pain. Being involved in the Domestic Abuse Intervention Programs has allowed me to see how her husband has used his power to control her. No more. She is now making noise. I hope other women will heed the signs and get out of relationships that demean them or get the help they need. Abuse takes many forms. Women need to stand tall and stand up for their own power. Like you, I learned the hard way that when a man is angry about losing that power, it is too easy to kill. Both of our sisters are now dead as a result. Keep writing. Make noise.
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I’m so so sorry you and your family have gone through this. Please know you are making a difference, you are saving lives. It doesn’t make it all better, but it is something. I hope you realize how important your work is.
Blessings, Kim.
I only have one sibling. My sister. We have our ups and downs. Mostly up, thankfully, and I’m not sure I could handle anything happening to her. So, I know how deep that love is. You’re most appreciated for your courage to speak on behalf of your sister and other women.
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Isn’t this month National Prevent Domestic Abuse Month or something like that? I’ve always thought it kind of stupid to dedicate a month to things that are unjust. To things that we need to rail against all the time. To tell people we need to watch out for each other, keep our eyes and ears open for signs.
And yet.
If it saves one life, well then…okay.
Do you ever read Alexandra Rosas stuff? She’s the dynamo behind the blog Good Day, Regular People.
Google her. She just ran a series called “Red Flags.” It is horrifying and stunning, and I know you will get it.
xoxoRASJ
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Kim this is so powerful and so important. I think we may be on our way to a serious campaign. You know I’m in!
xob
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We love you Kim. Never stop talking about this, we won’t either! xxx
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what a video. I loved hearing your voice, but I hated what you said about Kay being shot. She must be so proud of you right now and forever. We are breaking our silence. xoxox
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Beautiful, this blog and your relentless passion for domestic abuse victims is amazing! xo
It’s a tragedy. It’s tearing up my heart when I hear your voice and watch this video. Nobody has the moral right to keep silent.
We are breaking our silence
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i just covered a preliminary hearing for a domestic murder. thought of you and kay.
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What a powerful, heartbreaking story. Thank you for sharing this important message with all of us. Bless you and your family and everyone suffering abuse of any kind.
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Kimmy.
I wish I was part of your video! I’m sorry I had to work. You all did a awesome and courageous job. Love you
This is so powerful and brave, so very moving. So sorry for your family’s tremendous loss.
Very powerful and very needed! Thank you for turning your tragedy into a movement. Goddess bless her and your family.
When I think that there is no more tears left in my body, they still come. I love you Kim!