In Memory of Kay Kim's Blogs



~Dedicated to Kay Marie whom gives me massive-  mad – miraculous- material
for my essays, blogs & poetry.

I wrote Flirting With Antonio  (An absolutely TRUE story ) on May-2009/ Skirt Magazine.  Here is another essay about Kay

{Yes, this is how it used to
be before my mourning, lamenting, weeping, missing, missing, fucking missing…}



I steal segments of my sister’s
life. Sorry about that, Sis, but my muse perks up and does jumping jacks
because of your experiences, mishaps, and ridiculous misfortunes. In other
words, you crack me up.

My partner in crime is my sister,
Kay. During one of our gatherings at a  Grandma’s Sports Bar, Antonio Banderas was our
waiter. I’m not kidding you. I had no idea this man waited tables in between
his Zorro films and Melanie Griffith. Regardless, here comes Antonio with his
saucy, sexy, seductive self to take our orders, and we’re giggling like
fourteen year old girls…

“Oh isn’t he cute? Isn’t he adorable? He’s
hotter than hell and young enough to be our..…I will not finish that sentence.
And how dare you ask, biatches.

So Kay is batting her eyes like one
of those cartoon characters with the oversized lashes; Betty Boop or something.
“I’ll have a salad with the dressing on the side,” she purrs, staring up at him
like Bambie on crack. And I say loudly…

“Tell him what you really waaaaaant!”

stands there grinning gorgeously, and his teeth, I swear to god, are sparkling
and shining like dripping pearls; his skin is velvety milk chocolate, and his
hair is pulled back into the most luscious black pony tail I’ve ever witnessed.
It surges down his back like a dark water.

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.    Meoooooooooooow.   Ohhhhhlaaaalaaaa.

Sometimes words escape a woman. Yes,
it’s true.

After I take all of him in, I
repeat, “Tell him what you really waaaaant.”

Kay looks at me with one of those
“I’m-going-to-friggen-kill-you-when-we-leave-here-looks” and says sweetly- in
her Kay voice…. “And what do I want, Kimmie?”

“Onion rings, silly, or perhaps
something else a little more  spiiiiicy.”

I begin roaring, snorting, and
clapping my hands together like one of those monkeys with the tambourine.

When Antonio speaks, we are
surprised he doesn’t have a Spanish a accent. You know, the sort of dialect
that spills sex all over the table. Damn it, with that face, it just seems
wrong as hell to be from, well,  Minnesota.

Anyway, when we go out, we usually
dress up. I mean, it’s an excuse to wear four inch heels, dark eyeliner, and
paint ourselves pretty. Kay has this braided hairpiece she inserts sometimes
for a little oomph, a little umph, a little Bridget Bardot. It‘s quite hip. In
fact, this reminds me, I’ve been meaning to get one of those hair pieces in blonde,
just to see if blondes have more fun.

Seriously, one time I sprayed my
entire head blonde with some of those Revlon color cans to surprise my husband.
I had to use three entire cans, and when I open the front door to let him in,
he stares at me, his brain calculating who the hell I was cause he’s used to
dark haired chicks. He finally says ,(( TINA TURNER?))

Men drive me toooooooootally insane.

Okay, back to Our Antonio. (Isn’t
that a book?)

So we’re waiting for our onion rings
and artichoke dip, chatting ever so lovingly about Antonio’s tight ass, his
full lips, and how we’d like to kiss him reeeeal badly, when quite suddenly….
there he is standing with his delectable darkness appearing all awkward and
tongue tied.

“Ex-ex-cuse me, ladies, but—but—
does this item belong to any of you?” He is holding his silver serving tray up
towards us with his beautiful brown hand and Kay and I tilt our heads to peek

What could it possibly be? Is he
giving us his phone number, his address, the key to his heart?

We begin laughing and howling like
crazy women. We cannot stop. It is too much to handle, too make to take in.

Upon Antonio’s tray, arranged like a
furry little squirrel, like some damn road kill scooped off the highway 61– is
Kay’s braided hairpiece. And my sister being her cool, confident self– points
to the table across from us and asserts, “I think it belongs over there.”


——Dear, Reader,  do you have a soul-mate?  If so, could you live without her/him?

My Sister & Soul-mate was murdered by Mike Peterson on May 26, 2010.   I miss miss miss her.  I miss those carefree days.  I miss the very essence of her.  Mourning never ends…

~~~~Get Help  NOW for Verbal Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Sexual Abuse,  Physical Abuse, Finacial Abuse- or any other kinds of abuse…..800-799-SAFE (7233) or at TTY 1-800-787-3224. Do  Not  Wait   One.  More.  Solitary. Day.


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  • Reply
    nan @ lbddiaries
    August 27, 2012 at 9:01 am

    Too, too funny! I can just see the two of you howling with laughter over a hairpiece laid out on his tray. You know who my soul mate is. While I could live without him, I don’t want to try that; the light would dim in my life.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:07 am

      Yes, I know who your soul mate is!

      And yes, my light is dim w/ out mine… Xxx

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    Beverly Diehl
    August 27, 2012 at 9:07 am

    O.M.G. The escaped squirrel. The only thing worse would be accidentally dropping a feminine sanitary product – super PLUS, for Antonio to retrieve.

    I think, poor kid. Then again, maybe it’s what he deserves for being sexy AND waiting tables in Minnesota in between making movies. I mean, REALLY, what does Antonio expect? (You did leave a big tip, I hope.)
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:08 am


      Can’t remember about the tip, but we split quickly after the squrirrel arrived!! Xxx

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    August 27, 2012 at 9:07 am

    Love this story Kim. You are working on a memoir aren’t you? I sure hope so.
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    Vidya Sury
    August 27, 2012 at 9:30 am

    🙂 I can just visualize it! Giggle! Antonio Banderas. Sigh. You do get to meet all the super-sexy types no? Hmm. I like Andy Garcia too. And while we’re at it, let’s throw in Robert De Niro! (he just had a birthday – Aug 17) And how can I forget Al Pacino. Ok, so I am in love with the Mafia.- I am crazy about The Godfather series.

    Soul mates. Yes, Kim. I have mine. I’ve lost mine. I cannot live without them. But I can exist. And it hurts so bad sometimes to feel the vacuum.

    Hugs! i am waiting for your book, Kim! I love you more than the thirty deer gambolling on the grass.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:09 am

      Have you watched THE SAPRANOS?

      Love you more than 10 black Panthers in the Kenyan Moonlight. <3 Xxx

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    Liz @ A Nut in a Nutshell
    August 27, 2012 at 9:32 am

    You were two peas in a pod for sure! LOVE that story, and I love how you described his smile. 🙂
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:10 am

      She was (IS) the love of my life….the only one who REALLY knew me.


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    August 27, 2012 at 10:08 am

    As I learn about the type of antics you two conjured, I’m wondering how your mom and dad managed. Did their hair turn white prematurely? Did they have to visit the guidance counselor frequently – for their own personal treatments? Did they ever sleep? Oh wait, I know…they had GPSs implanted on the two of you. With microphones! 😀

    Love you to pieces, Kim. Your heart gives off so much love, so much compassion.
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      August 27, 2012 at 12:35 pm

      Amy———— I didn’t know much about GPSs when Kim & Kay were much youngere
      younger, or i would have implanted both of them with a microphone.
      About the counselor, I thought about it. But i have to amit, we did sleep sometimes. I could tell you much more about them but i don’t have enough
      space to write it all. I love both of them with all my heart.

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    Impulsive Addict
    August 27, 2012 at 10:20 am

    I think I’ve had that same waiter….in Oklahoma. Hot! Hot! Hot! But he definitely needs to have the accent. =) What a great memory, Kim!! xoxo
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:12 am

      –Oh, Yes!

      The accent is almost HOTTER than the man <3 Xxx

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    The Bipolar Diva
    August 27, 2012 at 11:02 am

    THAT is so freaking funny! I love it!
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:12 am

      Glad I could give you a distraction XXxxx

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    Purely.. Kay
    August 27, 2012 at 11:44 am

    I really loved reading this. The story just made me chuckle and smile. And we all need a good smile everyday. Thanks girl ;).
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:14 am

      Dear Purely Kay,

      I agree.

      Laughter is the best medicine in the universe. Especially at somebody else’s expence!! Haa Xx

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    Ellen M. Gregg
    August 27, 2012 at 11:49 am

    So funny, Kim! 🙂 I can easily visualize how you and Kay were behaving together. I would have been doing the same thing with my closest friends.

    Antonio’s Minnesota accent would have been vastly disappointing. As for the hairpiece… L.M.A.O. 🙂 xoxo

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:15 am


      We even finished one another’s sentences.

      OOOOOOOOOOOO, How I miss that, Ellen. Xxxx

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    Mandy - The Complete Cook Book
    August 27, 2012 at 11:55 am

    Kim, bless you for this most wonderful read before I head off to bed! I burst out laughing when I read “TINA TURNER” and the hair piece just pushed me over the edge! TOO FUNNY!!!
    Much love, hugs and kisses to you darling Kim.
    🙂 Mandy xo
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:15 am

      Ahhh, I love that you laughed.

      Much affection flowing to you in South Africa, Dear Mandy <3

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    August 27, 2012 at 12:29 pm

    Really really cracked up Kim. You’re such a beautiful writer! Thanks much for stopping by my blog. Honestly it wrecks havoc in me every time I stop by your blog. Reading that line about Kay is devastating.

    And I love Skirt! mag. It’s so fun and funky. Am on Twitter as GOAgaga. I follow you. I don’t want to miss your writing. is one of my small ventures. Do look it up when you get time.

    Fun and Cheers

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:16 am

      Hi, Ginza,

      I am clicking over this instant.


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    Jann Huizenga
    August 27, 2012 at 12:59 pm

    You wild and crazy ones!! Delicious & funny story, Kim. You are both so gorgeous–no wonder poor Antonio was nearly speechless. My favorite line: “clapping my hands together like one of those monkeys with the tambourine.” I can so picture it. I love it when women have uncontrollable attacks of laughter!!! xxxxxxxxxxxbig hugs!
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:22 am

      I love love love that you enjoyed that little detail about the monkey w/ the tambourine!

      That is SOOO you. Xxx Kisses flowing.

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    Choc Chip Uru
    August 27, 2012 at 1:26 pm

    Your story was so beautifully expressed my friend, I found myself reading it it slowly carefully and dreamily 🙂
    So funny and awesome my friend, thank you!

    Choc Chip Uru
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:23 am

      Dear Choc,
      I love when you visit me, dear. Xxx

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    Charlene Ross
    August 27, 2012 at 4:06 pm

    This is one of my favorite stories of yours Kim! I laughed and laughed again when I read it. Though, this time when I laughed it did break my heart. I hope through the tears these funny, happy, wonderful memories make you laugh too. Even if only briefly.

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:23 am

      I find myself laughing and then crying…

      many emotions all wrapped into one.

      Love U. X

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    J.L. Campbell
    August 27, 2012 at 5:09 pm

    That was very funny and your sister is quite a cool customer.
    The end of your post regarding what happened to her s a sobering message.

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:24 am

      J. L.
      thanks for reading.

      Usually my posts are quite sad….You caught a funny one. Xxx

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    August 27, 2012 at 5:21 pm

    How lucky you are to have had such an amazing sister. Love that you keep her memory alive with these stories. xo
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:29 am

      As Long as I have breath, her stories will be told! Thanks for reading. Xx

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    August 27, 2012 at 5:40 pm

    I’m sure he remembers that time as well! And got the biggest kick out of the two of you! He enjoyed flirting with you as much as you did with him!
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:31 am

      Sweet, Irene.
      he was used to girls flirting w/ him, but the cool thing was, he had no idea he was soooooooooooooo gorgeous. I love that in a man. Xxxx

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    Solid gold creativity
    August 27, 2012 at 5:53 pm

    haha, priceless!!! I love how Kay coolly says “It belongs over there” and laughed out loud at “Damn it, with that face, it just seems wrong as hell to be from, well, Minnesota.”

    Nothing better than having a partner in crime, someone to be stupid with. My friend, Suzanne, is like this for me. We went to a book launch on Saturday and she spent the entire time pulling down her polyester dress and pulling up her tights. Every time I looked in her direction she was pulling something. Bad case of electricity I think, though not the Antonio kind.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:36 am

      Dear Solid,

      Susanne sounds like a KICK!

      Glad you girls found one another. It’s fun to laugh! Xxx

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    Blond Duck
    August 27, 2012 at 7:12 pm

    I’ve only had one girlfriend like that–and I miss her.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:36 am

      Ohh, Ducky,
      I am sorry you aren’t connected anymore. Xxx

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    Red Dwyer
    August 27, 2012 at 7:51 pm

    I have had quite a few PIC, Kimmie. They are the spice of life. I have a similar story of dropping something one does not want to claim later, but not a squirrel on a platter!! LMAO funny <3

    Much love Red.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:39 am

      Dear Red,
      you must write about whatt you dropped! A condom? Tampax? Teeth? Haaaaaaaaaaa xxx

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    Lady Fi
    August 27, 2012 at 8:43 pm

    Oh, what a wonderful story! It made me smile.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:39 am

      Lady Fi,
      I’m glad I could make you smile 🙂 x

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    Valentine Logar
    August 27, 2012 at 9:04 pm

    And Kay looks down and says ‘dang, she just spills it all, all of it now everyone knows’.

    I of course married my Antonio, he wasn’t my waiter just the nice man that checked me into the hotel (guess he checked me out too).

    You told this beautifully!

    Hugs and Love my friend

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:40 am

      Love and Hugs back, Val. Xxx

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    August 27, 2012 at 10:07 pm

    What a beautiful relationship you two had. So in sync. But tell me, was it really really Antonio? Before he became famous or what? Or was it a dream. I’m curious, of course.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:43 am

      No. it was not Antonio, but we called him that!

      Because he looked like a YOUNG Zorro! Xxx

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    August 27, 2012 at 10:13 pm

    Oh hon,

    I know it will never be easy. But I’m glad you have moments like this to crack up over. Those darn squirrels….

    (BTW, I know it’s not your thing, but I included you in my Versatile Blogger nomination blog. You don’t have to act on it…but not including you would have been untruthful. And somehow very, very wrong.)
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:44 am

      Dear Drama,
      You are TOOOO sweet.

      Thank you for your kind words. Xxx

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    August 27, 2012 at 10:55 pm

    What a gorgeous, funny story. Love that you’re telling your stories. Love.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:59 am

      Mama A,
      Love Love Love. Xx

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    August 27, 2012 at 10:56 pm

    Ahahaha! I love how she handled it!! Fabulous. Seriously fabulous.

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 7:59 am

      Dear B,
      It was a Faaaaaaaaaaaabulous time in my life… Xx

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    Elephant's Child
    August 28, 2012 at 12:25 am

    My face hurts from smiling here. And I needed no proof that as your much loved sister she had to be funny and smart, but I still love the example you gave us.
    Hurting for you, hurting with you.

    • Reply
      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 8:00 am

      Dear E,
      I am so happy that you are SMILING 🙂 Xxxx

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    Lorraine @ Not Quite Nigella
    August 28, 2012 at 2:28 am

    What a sweet and funny story! I can picture you two so easily 😀 My soul mate is my husband and I dread the thought of being without him xxx
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 8:34 am

      Sending my love Down Under .. <3 X

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    Corinne Rodrigues
    August 28, 2012 at 6:01 am

    What a story, Kim! I can imagine both of you laughing at this for a long time. Kay was truly your soul-mate and partner in crime, I see.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 8:34 am

      Kay was EVERYTHING to me. Xxx

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    Dangerous Linda
    August 28, 2012 at 6:16 am

    perfect piece, kim!

    such a happy story — such a sad end!!!


    ps yes, i have soul mates. someday either i will have to live without them or else they without me. i think about that sometimes and it reminds me to love, love, love the MAGIC of this moment! thank you for reminding me again!
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 8:35 am

      Somehow I always thought I’d have Kay to grow old with…

      Love. Xxxx

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    August 28, 2012 at 6:48 am

    Ha! Wonderful story! Your writing is so honest and real. LOVE it!
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 8:35 am

      Dear Milk.

      Thanks for reading! Xx

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    August 28, 2012 at 7:08 am

    I love this story and I love you!

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 8:36 am

      Love you, tooooooooooooooooooooo

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    August 28, 2012 at 9:02 am

    That’s happened to me too. Only I discovered the hairpeice was gone before somebody else did. Still, it was terribly embarrassing to go claim it.

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 8:37 am


      Wish I could have been there, Tots. Xxx

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    ed pilolla
    August 28, 2012 at 10:02 am

    great story, very funny with memorable details. i love it:) been thinking about you and it’s good to check in. hope you are having a fab summer:)
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 8:37 am

      how are you, dear?

      I’ve missed YOUuuuuuuuuuuuuuu! Xxx

      When is your wedding? Aren’t you engaged now? AWESOME

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    August 28, 2012 at 10:11 am

    That is hilarious Kim and Kay sounds like a hoot. I bet you two really had some fabulous times together. Do you ever wonder if Antonio remembers those days? The people he ran into and the smiles he put on a lot of ladies faces?

    I don’t have a soul mate, a runny buddy and my sister and I are not close at all. As a matter of fact, I often question if she was switched shortly after birth. Yeah, I know… It’s kind of sad really.

    Oh well, I do have my dog! 😉
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 8:39 am

      Dear A,
      I wasn’t the REAL Antonio….He is MUCH OLDER than us!! HAA.

      But it did look like his YOUNGER son.

      Yes. Dogs can be soulmates!!! Xxxx

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    August 28, 2012 at 3:01 pm

    I don’t think I can find anything original to add that hasn’t been said above ( the comments are ones to cherish, Kim). You two have some a strong bond, which shows up in all your writing. It’s part love, part sisterhood, part family, part best friends. You are indeed blessed my sweet woman.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 8:39 am

      I need to keep reminding myself of that…

      Love Xxx

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    August 28, 2012 at 4:22 pm

    Too funny!!! I love that story and thank you so much for sharing this with us!!!!
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 8:50 am

      you are quite welcome <3 Xxx

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    August 28, 2012 at 7:18 pm

    Kim. That is one of my favorite stories of you and Kay!! I can see your face and hear your laughter!! Love you girlfriend xoxo

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 8:53 am

      –Wish you could have been there, Kimmy. Xxxx luv U.

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    August 28, 2012 at 7:19 pm

    PS. Thanks for a good laugh! I really needed it.

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    Unknown Mami
    August 28, 2012 at 7:36 pm

    Oh thank you so much for that laugh. I can’t tell you how much I enjoyed it.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 8:54 am

      it makes me happy that you laughed at this incident….at our expence!!! HAAaaa XXxxx

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    Feeling Beachie
    August 28, 2012 at 9:13 pm

    oh my… i didn’t see that one coming! Love it!
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 8:54 am

      Love when you drop by! xxxx

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    (FL) Girl with a New Life
    August 29, 2012 at 7:18 am


    Well done.

    The description of the “squirrel” it was put this over the top for me.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 8:56 am

      Dear FL,
      So glad I could bring you over the top!!!!!!!!!!!! Xxxxx

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    Sandy Webb
    August 29, 2012 at 7:46 am

    That is too funny. I bet the two of you were a blast to go out with. As far as soulmates go….I no longer have one and I don’t see me ever having one again.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 8:56 am

      I will never have one again…. but Mr. L. is second best. Xxxx

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    Irene @ Inspiration From The Little Things
    August 29, 2012 at 1:10 pm

    Oh my goodness! I was doing my best not to laugh out loud because it is only 4am here and the whole world is still sleeping! This was so wild and hilarious!!! LOL I soo enjoyed reading this! I and my sister still love reminiscing and laughing about all our crazy moments. Nothing in the world can ever replace the bond between sisters. <3

    Grateful for your sister for leaving such happy memories for you to share with us, Kim. Take care and God bless <3 🙂
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 29, 2012 at 2:40 pm

      Thanks for reading, Irene.

      Go Kiss your sister! Xx

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    Shane Curtis
    August 29, 2012 at 4:40 pm

    Oh I love that great memory Kim.
    Antonio Banderas is one of my faves. He’s super hot to me..
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    August 30, 2012 at 12:08 pm

    What a great story. I would have died from embarrassment. And you sister kept her cool and came up with a great reply. I have a sister too. It has crossed my mind what if something happened to her — but my thoughts were always something like a illness or accident. Nothing like your loss. I’m so sorry and loved reading about the laughter you shared.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      August 30, 2012 at 12:19 pm

      Thank you for reading…

      you caught one of my funny stories. Most of them are quite SAD.


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    August 30, 2012 at 1:19 pm

    Memories that bring laughter and smiles are the best. Keeping her close and safely in your heart. What a great time that evening was, you can tell how connected you both were and how easily you could play off one another!!

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    August 30, 2012 at 1:24 pm

    I love this story, too funny…and what a wonderful time in your life. And Antonio as your server??? Not toooo bad! 😉
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    August 31, 2012 at 8:42 am

    Hysterical! Oh, I’m so glad you shared this happy moment!
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    September 1, 2012 at 12:55 pm

    I seem to only get those hysterical giggle fits with my sister, too. I must be something in our genes!

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      September 1, 2012 at 2:34 pm

      —I Miss That So very much.

      Thanks for dropping over, Morgan. X

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    September 1, 2012 at 2:09 pm

    thanks for making me laugh at a moment when I needed it.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      September 1, 2012 at 2:35 pm

      Dear Adriana,
      I am so happy I could make you laugh )))) Love. Xxxx

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    September 1, 2012 at 5:29 pm

    I love my eyeliner/high heel nights out when I get to flirt with servers half my age. Point taken about hair pieces, though! There are a few girls that I just could not live without – the ones where you have those unspoken conversations? So lucky to have those soul mates as you have described them.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      September 1, 2012 at 5:51 pm

      Thanks for reading about this great memory w/ my soul-mate 🙂

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    September 2, 2012 at 12:38 am

    I love the way you write of your sister. It seems a precious precious relationship you had. God, it makes you question why some things happen some ways.

    All of the good times you had, are just what it should be like.

    Bless you both. You honour her beautifully.

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      My Inner Chick
      September 2, 2012 at 6:10 am

      thank you for your kind words. I shall honor her as long as I have breath inside my body.

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    Lady E
    September 2, 2012 at 1:46 pm

    Aaah Kim, I love this post, it’s wonderful ! And I cannot believe how cool your sister was. Respect for her brilliant wherewithal… Lots of love to you and here’s to happy memories xx 🙂
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    September 5, 2012 at 8:18 am

    This is the kind of story that floats into your mind at the most unexpected times and makes you laugh rip-roaringly right out loud even if it makes you look a little crazy! What a great memory.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      September 5, 2012 at 12:49 pm

      I miss those days, those talks, that laughter! xxx

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    September 6, 2012 at 2:29 pm

    Kim, this post made me squeal! Squeal, I tell you! I love, love, love Antonio Banderas! How I wish I had been with you and Kay this day. I also love to read about this happy time with your sister. The love that shine through is phenomenal. I think it’s fair to say that both you and your lovely sis are the perfect example of sisterhood. As I read through your post, I imagined every one of Kay’s actions just as you described them. Oh, to be a fly on the wall that day! This story needs to make its way into your memoirs–although something tells me it’s already there! Loved this post, my friend! Hugs to you from Roxy and me! 🙂

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      September 6, 2012 at 3:12 pm

      Love this memory. I have so very many.

      I miss miss miss…miss miss

      Love to you and Rox XXXXXXXXX

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