~~Dear, Mr. Liverpool,
1. I love
that you see me.
You know, without
makeup. Hideous and Stinky. Hair piled unwashed and uncombed. Me. The unpainted version of me. The real me. The muted me….. & still, you love.
2. I love your British accent wrapping around
me like the 4 Beatles.
3. I love that you pretend to get pleasure from
burnt bacon on Saturday mornings.
4. I love that when I burst into tears
mid-sentence because of Kay’s murder, you gaze at me with tender, knowing, sugary
eyes.
5. I love that you read every. single. blog.
I write.
And even though you discipline me sometimes for my sweltering,
spontaneous, straightforward tone, you never judge me. Never.
6. I love that you support my “Writing”
addiction.
7. I love that you’ve attended each one of
my poetry readings, poetry recitals, & domestic violence causes. Always, without question. I see you sitting there smiling.
8. I love that you never leave the table
without saying “thank you” for your meal…even when it’s overcooked,
undercooked, & shockingly, charcoaly appalling.
Is that a British trait, mate?
9. I love that after all of these years, even when I’ve asked, you’ve
never told me my ass was big.
You are an exceptionally intelligent man.
10. I love that you love me.
In spite of everything,
In spite of everything.
—–Dear, 
Reader, what are some things you “love” about your lovaaah?
-The first song we danced to in Mexico. Remember, dear? You couldn’t keep your hands off of me 
Does he have a brother? You know me and those Brits!
You’re very fortunate! He’s one in a million!
Irene recently posted..The Cover Letter
–Irene,
He is one in a million.
No brother….but he does have 1 sister in London.
Xx
I love this!
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Dear A,
Love when U stop by xx
Wow! What a beautiful Valentine you have written to your true love. Won’t he be thrilled when he reads this post!!!! I’m so glad you have him and realize the treasure you have.
Jann Huizenga recently posted..One-Minute Dinner Party Desserts, from Sicily with Amore
–Jann,
He may be a bit surprised. I hope he makes a comment! Xx
*Sigh*
I wish I had a better comment – but that one is sigh worthy! I love that Mr. Liverpool loves you, too!
Ann recently posted..Asian Noodle Slaw
–Ann,
I have a feeling you may feel the same about Honey Bunny. xx
You know it!
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oh how I love this!
The Bipolar Diva recently posted..Diva? Why Not Diva?
–thanks, Diva. Love when you visit me.
xX
AWWWW
Awwwww.
After all these years, I still dig the dude. X
I have been in my current relationship for over thirty years but still have to ask: Could you clone him?
Dear E C,
HaaaaHAAA.
You’ve only heard the GOOD side of Mr. L.
)
Oh Kim that made me cry. Please print this and frame this. So beautiful. I too love that my Hot Joe loves me sweaty, no make-up, stinky, just worked out, bad breath. He is my biggest fan and keeps me grounded without holding me back.
I may have to write my own letter.
xxooxxooxxoo
Kim Pugliano recently posted..Comment on I Want That by Kimberly Pugliano
–Kim,
I KNOW how much you adore Hot Joe.
Please write your own list. Xx
Crazy love, way cool!
Sandra recently posted..Pink Velvet Cake
Sandra,
Waaaay Coooool Xx
This is so beautiful! It sounds like you both appreciate each other. Much joy to you and Mr. Liverpool.
–Christine,
Nobody could EVER put up with my shit…. except Mr. L. Xx
It’s all about “Respect.”
Swoon.
Burning the bacon…blog reading…
That’s love right there
I love you too.
So where’s my blog lovin dedication post?
Kidding.
Maybe.
Xoxo
Kimberly recently posted..Secret Mommy-hood Confession Saturday
—The burnt bacon is the big story around this house!!
X Kiss
Lovely. My man’s the same
This post is so feel-good for me – and so similar to what I would write – except I’d write “my mom” when I burst out crying ~ and play a hindi song for Sury.
Used to hear Tainted Love almost everyday back in the 80′s on MTV.
You’re a sweetheart, Kim. Bless you!
Hmm…maybe I’ll write a poem for Sury – he always writes one for our anniversary, my birthday and Vidur’s birthday.
Hugs!
Vidya Sury recently posted..Sunday In My City – Taking Time to Smell the Flowers
AHHHH, Vidya,
Lets see some more photos of your sweet love. I want to see your list, too. Xx
Lots of love flowing in your direction.
There is something super sexy about a man with an accent. Your lover sounds downright HOT in my eyes!
I love how my husband thanks me for cooking even if it’s horrible. We have that in common.
Great list my friend!! xoxo
Impulsive Addict recently posted..California Girls
–Impulsive,
) Xx
I adore accents.
VERY sexy. The only one better than the British may be the French
There is nothing sexier than a good man. Nothing. You, my dear, have a really good man.
I have one too. I love that my man supports in everything, no matter how crazy of an idea I come up with – whether I want to paint a rug, or start a business. He supports me and stand by me.
Heather recently posted..Helpless
–Heather,
So glad for you, dear.
We all deserve respect, deep love, and to be utterly adored. Xxx
Romance. Romantic love after years of marriage. Beautiful words. I just hope Mr. Liverpool knows what a lucky man he is. Burnt bacon and all.
XOXOs
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Terri,
) XX
every once in a while, i need to remind him
Mr. Liverpool sounds absolutely divine, and so perfect for you. I’ve always been fond of Brits and have had for a very long time major crushes on Pierce Brosnan (who’s really Irish, I believe) and Colin Firth. You two sound so right for each other. Hugs!
Monica recently posted..A Dog’s Diary
Colin Firth is dreamy. I also love that guy from Crank. Forgot his name…
But i’ll never find another Brit like Mr. Liverpool.
XX Kiss for you, Monica.
AWESOME – Mr Liverpool is just AWESOME!!! Kim, give him a big hug from me and tell him that I say thank you for loving you so unconditionally!
Mandy xo
My hubby Pete is the closest thing I know to a saint walking the face of the earth so I fully appreciate and understand what you are saying here.
Sending you love from sunny South Africa.
Mandy – The Complete Cook Book recently posted..Apple Cinnamon Roly Poly
–Ahhhh, Hubby Pete sounds sweet.
Is he from S. Africa? England?
Sending you kisses from MN to South Africa. Xx
Pete is South African with German roots somewhere along the line.
xo
Mandy – The Complete Cook Book recently posted..Brined Roast Chicken
I love the way Dream Baby vacuums the breakfast table with the floor vac, yet is the best sushi chef ever.
I love that he is always up for a glass of wine, a nap, or both.
I love that I can get my way with him no matter what. I love that he taught me to ski.
But mostly I love how he makes me a better person.
Great Post!
Kimberly
Goodness and Grit recently posted..Crazy!
–Kimberly,
Makes you a better person….A sushi chef.
WOW. I love that VERY much. Xx Happy for you, dear.
Oh girl, you’re making me swoon! Mr. Liverpool sounds dreamy!
Emily recently posted..One Dollar
–Emily,
) Xx
I believe I’ll keep him.
What a lovely post Kim, and here’s a bit of gossip for you
– can’t write it on my own blog, but here my parents won’t see it!
It’s still such early days with Mr Nice but I love that
1- I feel like I am 17 (currently in the throes of withdrawal syndrome because I haven’t touched his skin for 24h)
2- He is so effing gorgeous I think I might die
3- He understands why I am so scarred and scared, and is so patient
4- He has had the courage to work through his personal issues and is a self-aware, stronger man as a result
5- He can ski, snowboard, surf, windsurf, swim, run, play handball like a god
6- He loves his son above anything else and respects his ex
7- He makes me feel beautiful
8- He is both vulnerable and strong
9- He smells good
10- I feel protected in his arms
Right, anyone need a sick bag
?
x
Lady E recently posted..And the winner is…
Lady E,
I am sooo excited for you.
Mr. Nice sound deliciously nice. Is he French?
What really turns me on is a “GOOD FATHER.”
Keep me informed w/ all the juicy sexy gossip. Xx
You made me think and concentrate on my hubby’s good qualities and it would be that he always, always compliments and tells me how nice I look. Always reminds me too when I cook what a good cook I am even though I think he is stretching it a bit…and he always listens when I have an issue and is never critical of me……
Debbie recently posted..Ultimate Chocolate Chip Cookies
–Debbie,
)) They are hard to find. Xx
sounds as you have a good one, too.
Aw, Kim, that’s such a beautiful, sweet tribute to your clearly amazing husband.
Alison@Mama Wants This recently posted..January, Captured
–Mama A,
XX
I’ll definitely keep this Brit.
Such a sweet list, Kim! You must have the most amazing husband!
Anna recently posted..Do you let your dentist treat a tooth unless it hurts?
–Anna,
) X
He’s a pretty nice, kind, cool, awesome Brit.
Oh, Kimmers. I love you guys! xoxo
–Amy,
Love ya back, girlfriend. X
Beautiful. How lucky that you have each other.
Pat Scattergood recently posted..The time Momma quit smoking.
–Pat,
Yes, we will be together Forever and ever. xx
Kim, I love that you have Mr. Liverpool
Dear, D.
Yes. I am.
Thank you for saying that. Xxx
This post made me all teary-eyed! You deserve all this love and more!
Lady Fi recently posted..Of snow and love
Lady Fi,
Thank You! I love -love. X
What a glorious love letter to your man. I’m so glad you found each other!
Linda Medrano recently posted..Open Marriage
–Linda,
Me, too.
And I’m glad you found your cute guy, as well. Xxx
I love that my hubs offers to rub my feet when I’m not feeling well.
(FL) Girl with a New Life recently posted..Stories from Real Women: A Life in Service
Ahhhhhh, Sweet.
Even if they’re stinky?! x
This is just so beautiful. Thank you for sharing this very private love letter to your husband with us. Love is definitely beautiful and so are you guys.
Pure Complex recently posted..Movies: The Lucky One, Safe, & W.E.
Dear Pure,
) Xx
I think he’ll get a bit of a kick out of this.
Kim, I couldn’t have a better son In Law, you are both blessed by having each other.
I Love You Both
Dad
–Daddy,
Mr. Liverpool loves you like his own father. Xx
Kim, darlin’, we should all, and I mean, every single one of us, have someone as scrumptuous as Mr. Liverpool in our lives! I’m so delighted you have blessed to have a real man by your side. And I say real, because it takes a real man to love us unconditionally; without reserve, just because. That said, I know Mr. Liverpool must feel himself to be equally lucky to have a woman like you by his side. After all, it’s not every day that you get to wed a woman who is kind, considerate, compassionate, generous and kick ass! And that’s who you are, lady! All of that and more! So methinks you’re both blessed to have found each other! To answer your question, what I love most about the Significant Other is how he finds me beautiful even when I’m having a bad hair day and look like the Lion King. How when I tell him I need to lose weight he says, “Not too much cause then there’s no cushin’ for the pushin’” and how when we hug, his hands are always placed underneath my waist.
Bella recently posted..Would you be rich by now?
—-there’s no cushin’ for the pushin—- I like that.
Ahhhhh, I love your guy, too.
You know what else turns me on?
A Great Father.
That is sooo hot.
love ya, B. X
My Inner Chick recently posted..Ten Things I Love About You
Loved this post Kim! Number 5 made me utterly jealous (I earn my living principally as a writer – it must feel so special to know that there’s someone witnessing you each and every time – I find that so romantic…). Number 8 made me melt – love that Mr. Liverpool – and, the footnote to number 9 made me burst out laughing! Intelligent indeed
.
Kelly @ Inspired Edibles recently posted..Rich and Silky Dark Chocolate Truffles
—Kelly,
Love love love when you visit me.
About the “Blog Reading”
I test Mr. Liverpool to make sure he reads. HaaaahaaaHa. Seriously.
Xx Kissssss for you in Canada.
My Inner Chick recently posted..Ten Things I Love About You
I loved everything about him, but most of all I love the fact that he always supported me 100%. I miss that love.
Sandy Webb recently posted..Healing
–Sandy,
was he your soulmate?
Does one ever find love like that again? I mean, who can compare?
Think of you so often. X
Nice post, Kim.
Mr Liverpool must buy you a box of chocolates for this post.
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Tots,
) Xxx
Now, c h o c o l a t e is the downfall of my big ass
Mine too. But man, oh man, if I could survive from eating chocolate alone, I would.
totsymae1011 recently posted..We Interrupt This Broadcast for An Important Commercial
I love this. I would be hard pressed to cut mine to ten. You are blessed. He sounds like the kind you would want to leave little love notes for where he will find them hours later and wonder when you got to sneak them where he found them.
Red.
Red Dwyer recently posted..No.
–Red,
I like that idea.
Is that what you do? !! X
Wow. *sigh*. That was breathtaking. He reads ALL your blogs? And comes to ALL your gigs? That man LOVES you;). So lovely to hear.
My guy, my hubby, makes me laugh when I think I need to be very stern. He sees the me I want to be even when I act a fool. He reminds me that I am not my past and rejoices in who I am today. He praises me for the woman, mother and wife I have become. I’m going to go squeeze him right now.
Wild Child Mama recently posted..Inside A Stripper’s Dressing Room
“”He loves you for who you are today.”"
I looooooooooove that
) Xxxx
The fact that you wrote that and STILL know about the “not so good” side makes it even better. And him a keeper.
Nicole recently posted..Why I Whip My Hair
Nicole,
X
Yes. I think I shall keep him.
Mr Liverpool sounds like an absolutely wonderful husband Kim!
xxx
Lorraine @ Not Quite Nigella recently posted..Sokyo & Meow Meow, The Sydney Festival
Dear, Lorraine,
Mostly Wonderful:) Haaaaa xx he has his days…
Such a nice, sweet and honest post! I couldn’t write so beautiful things like you did. I love my man, I really do love him, because he is the MAN for me. He protects me, he is always kind, and he’s the best father as well.
Catwoman recently posted..teljes fogpótlás
–Catwoman,
You “”can”" write Beautiful things.
You just did!! Xx
How amazing is it that there are still men around like this! I found mine 2 times! I love that he loves my daughter Brooklynne Paige like his own! I love that he kisses her and hugs her and always makes time for her. I love that even though I picked an asshole for her sperm donor, she still has a daddy in Nick! I Love that she will always have someone who loves her as much as I do in case something happens to me (just in case) What a gift RIght? I love that he loved me even though I broke his heart after dating for 4 years in highschool and he let me live as a single 20 year old and find ME and still loved me UNCONDITIONALLY for 6 years after that!! ( AS A BESTFRIEND ) Soon I will be his WIFE! I love that he just loves ME.
Kim I love you for making me grateful. Sometimes I forget! Thank you for your gift to me!!
Maggie, So happy you are finally with a nice guy!
When Can I meet you?
You Are such a sweet girl & I love when you come visit me.
) Xxx
This is the sweetest list I’ve seen in a long time. Your love is beautiful!
Bridget recently posted..Joke Of The Day
Dear B,
)
Yeah, Mr. L. is quite okay.
Xxx Kiss
What a wonderful tribute. And yes, a smart man re: the size of your bum. I do love a love story (no secret there) and love even more that you share your heart’s passions and feelings with us here on your blog. You are blessed, my sweet woman. Having a partner that shares your passions (even if they are not his) is, to me, amazing and worth walking over hot coals for. Enjoy your man and all his wonderfulness.
Brenda recently posted..What’s In a Story
—-Brenda,
)Xx
I shall be waiting for you list of Loves!
My Inner Chick recently posted..Ten Things I Love About You
He sounds like an absolutely WONDERFUL, supportive man!!! I love that he reads your blog…so sweet!
Helene recently posted..A day in the life of a 4-year old…
—-Helene,
I think he may read sometimes to see
what sort of mood I’m in… Haaaaaaaaaaaa.
Xx
My Inner Chick recently posted..Ten Things I Love About You
After this post? I love Mr. Liverpool too!
Lola recently posted..Taken To The Cleaners
-Lola….—I’ll pass that onto him
) XX
Yes, my man too must always have patience with me and show divine interest in everything I do, including read all my blog posts. Good men!
Kristy @PampersandPinot recently posted..Make the Bread, Buy the Butter, and Keep the Goat on the Farm
—Looks like we both have some good dudes
)) Xx
And I test Mr. L about my blogs… HAaaa
My Inner Chick recently posted..Ten Things I Love About You
This reminds me of that John Micheal Montgomery song–love the way you love me.
Blond Duck recently posted..Wings 10
–Dear, B. D.
Sounds familiar. I’ll need to check it out. X
i love my hubby’s unassuming ways when in fact he could be cocky…
i love his support through all changes and variations of myself i’ve gone through…
i love how he loves his daughters…
gosh so much more which would soon be a post
Adriana Iris recently posted..On A Cloudy Day…
–Dear, Adriana,
Please do a post about this, too, W/ Photos! XXXXXxx
My Inner Chick recently posted..Ten Things I Love About You
This is so sweet Kay! Really! And guess what? I wrote something similar to that
Take care.
WarmSunshine recently posted..I love the places you take me!
–Warm Sunshine,
I shall come visit & read your post!!
) xx
My Inner Chick recently posted..Ten Things I Love About You
He sounds like an amazing man! The British accent thing would make me melt every time.
Kimberly recently posted..Goodbye, Grandpa
—Kimberly,
I don’t notice the accent anymore … but I do notice his British Manners & Charm. Xxx
This post could not be more beautiful Kim!
You are indeed so lucky to have each other.
xo.
lisa recently posted..A Mystery…
—Lisa,
Xx
I Agree!
Kim – I know I am not the first to ask- but does he have a brother? Mr; Liverpool is one of a kind and I am so glad he loves you – smart man. xxx
-Dear e,
Yes. He loves me.
& Believe me, sometimes i am very hard to love… Xxx
XX
A good man indeed. And burnt bacon? I love it.
Jessica recently posted..Kauai In Pictures
Lots and lots of Burnt Bacon!!
)
One should not write blogs and make bacon at the same time!!! xx
My Inner Chick recently posted..613 Days
You & Dave are so romantic!! To me the little things in life are romantic
Like for instance my Lee is romantic in the things he
says & does that mean the most to me.
1. He tells me he loves me every day
2. He always says something positive about me,
or gives me compliments about how I look even
if I know I look like or feel like crap.
3. He is a great dad & 4. a great son to his parents.
5. He has a great sense of humor
6. Even though he doesn’t like old black & white
movies which are my favorite he will watch them
with me. I do the same for him of course! Same
goes for music.
7. One of my favorite things is when he holds my hand
Whether we’re just watching TV, walking or even
sleeping.
8. He respects me for who I am & believe me I do
drive him crazy with my moods.
9. He is gentle & 10. kind
Kimmy,
You. So. Deserve. A. Man. Like. That.
Happy for you, dearest. Xxxx
I love that your husband reads every single one of your posts! I give my husband random pop quizzes to check if he’s read mine. He fails these pop quizzes repeatedly!
Sam @ Mom At The Barre recently posted..Figure 4 Event for Mom At The Barre readers
–Sam,
I quiz Mr. L, too.
Haaaa.
and he usually passes. Xx
Mr. Liverpool sounds amazing… I am so happy for you to have such a great guy in your life…. I am lucky with the burning of the bacon part too – marc loves a lot of burnt food – comes in very handy!
Hilary recently posted..Follow Friday Four Fill In Fun Blog Hop – week 47
–Hilary,
I usually hear,
“Kim, You Burnt the Bacon AGAIN. Stop blogging and watch the darn BACON!”
Xx
Aww, sweet and funny! You need to re-post this in a few weeks for Valentines Day.
Karen,
Sending you a kiss from Duluth, Mn.
We are planning our “”"Kay Marie Sisto Memorial”"walk again
X
I have one of these, too, a blog about all the reasons I love Sean, my BOYFRIEND. isn’t that adorable? A 52-year-old woman having a BOYFRIEND? Your love note made me remember some I need to add! I love it and I love that you are in love and well-loved and loving. xoxoxoxoxoxo
–Ginger,
And I love that you love…..
and keep on loving. Xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I intended to comment on some of your “loves” individually, but there are so many that touch me, I’d be here typing forever.
Kairo recently posted..kids bean bags
Okay – I am in love with this post. Absolutely! One. Hundred. Percent. In love with this post. You make me wanna do a mushy on Alpha Hubby, too. Maybe February can be the gag month – ho!
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