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Endless Syllables of Deliciousness


Have you ever wondered what some of your favorite bloggers would actually be like face to face, eyeball to eyeball, skin to skin?

What would it  be like meeting them (In Person)  for a glass of wine discussing life, love, kids, sex, God, blogging? 

I’ve wondered about this.

Would they truthfully & authentically live up to their blogs?

Would they be intellectual, brilliant, interesting, & wildly hilarious…

….Or would there be awkward silences and uncomfortable pauses?

Would they suddenly become individuals you  Do.  Not.  Recognize.

Would their words and insight flow from the same directions?

I’ve wondered about this.

I mean,

So many of you have become a small  part of my everyday existence.

….And hopefully, I’ve become part of yours.

I’ve  laughed outrageously at your fabulous narratives.

And I’ve sobbed when you’ve gushed your truth about bi-polar, rape, and postpartum depression.

You’ve become my sisters.

You’ve become women I’ve connected with in a sort of solidarity movement.

It’s been revolutionary.


You’ve allowed me to have this profoundly powerful platform to lament, mourn, cry, &  scream FUCK.

Without judgment.    

I’ve used your chicken marsala recipes for  Sunday Dinners, and baked your extraordinary chocolate cakes and coconut macaroons for the church  bizarres.

Australia.   India.   Ireland.   London.   The French Alps.  South Africa.  Kenya.  The Caribbean.   New Zealand.  Tokyo.

San Francisco.   Atlanta.   New York.  Boston.  Las Vegas.  Austin.  Miami. 

You reside in all of these places, and my life has become larger knowing you, learning from you,  and loving your vocabulary.

Have you experienced this sort of shared cohesiveness?

Can you feel the influence we can generate from a simple blog?

And more than that,

If we met face to face, eyeball to eyeball, skin to skin,  would the words between us pour like endless syllables of deliciousness?

I’ve been thinking about that.

—Dear, Readers,   have you met any of your fellow bloggers?  If so, did they live up to their blogs?   What are some of your stories?   Give me a shout out where you’re from!!!

My Favorite Skirt Chickies.  So sorry I wasn’t there!  Looooooooooove you.  Xx

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  • Reply
    October 21, 2011 at 9:06 am

    Great question, Kim! I was thrilled to meet Charlene Ross and she is just as fabulous in person as with her words. We’ve sat in the bleachers at never-ending track meets and swapped silly stories, opinions, and things that we probably wouldn’t want our children to hear. I was actually nervous the first time I met her for coffee – like a goofy teenager and first date. And the words flowed and I couldn’t wait to chat again.

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 9:22 am

      —Dear Jodnee,

      You see lovely Charlene in the photo, right?
      I loooove that you felt nervous about meeting her like a first date. I find this utterly sweet.
      –I’ll make sure she reads this. xxx

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    Hot Coco @ Flab to Fab
    October 21, 2011 at 9:08 am

    I have never met any of the bloggers I follow – you included! – and imagine it would be a fabulous experience. I can be a chatterbox, once I get started, so the aforementioned awkward silence might be welcome. 🙂
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 9:22 am

      –Hot Coco,

      I have a feeling you’d be utterly interesting & fun! :))) x

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    October 21, 2011 at 9:25 am

    I have not met any of my favorite bloggers in person. that would be interesting though!

    Hope you have a great weekend! see you next week!

    xoxo – Elizabeth

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 11:50 am

      —Dear, E.
      Have a good week, too. X

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    October 21, 2011 at 9:28 am

    Great post – as always – Kim! Believe it or not, I sat down and had coffee with a blogger yesterday and we chatted at Starbucks for two and a half hours! I now meet two bloggers regularly for lunch and we just had lunch last week….the three of us.

    Both of them are just as I expected – absolutely lovely. My sisters seem to like me a lot and they both say that I write EXACTLY the way I talk….even with the accent! (but they’re biased and since we have matching tattoos, they gotta say nice stuff!)

    As for meeting you – yes, please! I suspect we’d have a good time and I’d blush at the f-word…unless I was tipsy – then I’d laugh and blush!

    You’re the best and I suspect you’re just like your wonderful blog……heartfelt, crazy-in-a-good way, sincere, open, honest and friendly.

    I love you already!
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 11:52 am

      I love that you connected w/ the blogger and talked for hours! Sweet.

      Yes. I think we’d be friends. Isn’t is weird how one JUST KNOWS?

      Don’t worry…. The F word is not part of my vocab…Only in my blogs ( after that happened to Kay)

      Love you, too. :))) XXx

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    nan @ LBDDiaries
    October 21, 2011 at 9:39 am

    AS IF you and I could ever have a silent moment between us the day we meet. I don’t believe it would ever happen. I believe we are what we are behind what we post. Sure there may be a few people who are faking it behind written words but some of my dearest friends are e-friends I’ve met online and not in real life, you included. I feel like I’ve known you forever. It sometimes astonishes me to realize I’ve never met you.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 11:54 am

      Yes. I think the converstion would flow easily w/ you!

      … but wouldn’t you be a bit nervous to meet face to face w/ some of your fave bloggers?

      I know I would.

      I’d think “Oh, I hope they like me!!”

      xxx Kiss & hugzzzzzzzzzz from MN.

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    Linda Medrano
    October 21, 2011 at 9:52 am

    I have met a couple of bloggers from California. I was delighted to find they were the same people I had loved because of their writing.

    I would love to have you come to see me! I know you are an East Coast gal, and I’m West Coast, but I know we’d have a blast, Kim. You are one of the ladies at the top of my list of “who I’d love to meet”.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 11:55 am

      You would definitely be one I’d want to have a glass of wine with!

      I knew this the minute I read your first blog post… Xx

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    October 21, 2011 at 10:17 am

    Kim, we will meet you day and I will probbaly say, hey, you’re shorter than I thought becasue we seemed to have talked about everything else.. great pic of us skirt sisters. and my eyes were opened! xx elizabeth

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 11:56 am

      –Completely true, E.
      I feel as if I’ve known you for my entire damn life.

      You are SO SPECIAL to me. So lovely. So Real.

      ANd crazy & kind…


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    October 21, 2011 at 10:21 am

    I met many of my favorite bloggers at BlogHer this past August and many were just as fabulous as I expected them to be. Others, not so much and it was very disappointing.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 11:57 am

      I want you to do a blog about this.

      I find it fascinating…espeiclly about the bloggers you expected MORE from. Xx

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    October 21, 2011 at 11:14 am

    I haven’t met any bloggers yet (as I’m still keeping myself anonymous) but I know someday I will as there are a handful of bloggers in my network not too far away from me.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 11:58 am

      –Dear, L.

      You are a mystery.

      That makes your blog a bit more exciting.

      Who are you? A famous writer? An actress? A comedian?


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    October 21, 2011 at 11:46 am

    It would be interesting to meet you Kim 🙂

    Looooove you like cake

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 11:59 am


      We will meet.

      We already have inside our hearts.

      I love you more than chocolate cake with whip cream. :)))XXX

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    October 21, 2011 at 12:00 pm

    I love your blog! Just wanted to give you a shout out from Toronto, Canada!


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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 12:11 pm



      I’m so excited to meet you! :))) Xxx Kiss from Minnesota.

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    Impulsive Addict
    October 21, 2011 at 12:13 pm

    I DID meet up with some of my bloggy friends in Austin last May. We’ve decided to do it yearly. So next May, we’re gonna get crazy and crunk <–whatever that means in LA!! And that's not Louisiana either.

    How cool would a bloggy cruise be?

    I have also met some local bloggers. A few had totally different personalities than on their blog. I have to say I was a little disappointed.

    Just so you know, I love your blog. How do I put it on my sidebar? I don't know how to work your blog!
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      Impulsive Addict
      October 21, 2011 at 12:14 pm

      PS. I live near TULSA. That wasn’t mentioned in those places up there…just in case you were missing a place.
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        Kim Sisto-Robinson
        October 21, 2011 at 12:30 pm

        HA HA ! Sorry, next time Tulsa will be there!~

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 12:30 pm

      Dear Impulsive,
      how cool that you met some of you fave. bloggers.

      Was is weird to see their real faces? I’d love to hear why some of them disappointed you. That would be an interesting blog…Without Revealing names, of course.

      PS. the directions for putting the lips on your blog is:

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    October 21, 2011 at 12:22 pm

    Oh Kim! How I love you. You have such a way with words. I have a sneaking suspicion that we would have a dangerously good time if we got to hang out. Dangerously. Good. And I think we would exhaust ourselves with conversation. Just a gut feeling.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 12:32 pm


      ME, too!

      But I must admit, I’d be completly nervous because you are so utterly Lola-y. :))) xx

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    October 21, 2011 at 12:27 pm

    I’ve definitely wondered what it would be like to meet some of my blogging family in person. I think it would be such a cool experience. I’ve actually had a dream including some of my blogging friends…we all met, ate tons of food, hung out, etc. So, I imagine it would be just as lovely if I got to meet some of you for real! Maybe we should expedite this process and set something up, ha!
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 12:35 pm


      I have actually been in a sports bar and thought… “Oh, That’s Charlene or that looks like Ginger”

      The blogmosphere becomes quite real, doesn’t it?

      I have talked to several bloggers on the phone though…which is pretty cool to put the voice with the blog… xx

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    October 21, 2011 at 1:24 pm

    Oh Kim,

    I just love this blog – as always your generous heart just shines through! And yes it was so fabulous to meet Jodene. I was nervous to meet her too. (She’s so much smarter than me!) She is simply gorgeous inside and out. And thank God for Jodene at 7 hour track meets. I couldn’t have gotten through them without her.

    You and I talked on the phone a couple of years ago – I think we need to do it again! And I hunger for the day we meet face to face – which I know we will. (And I also know it will be indeed be delicious … hopefully we’ll be able to stock up enough Merlot!)

    And yes, you were truly missed in Atlanta – meeting Elizabeth, Cheryl, Renee, Susan, Heather, Angelia, Ginger and so many others was truly sublime. There was never an awkward silence, never a lull, it was as if we were long lost friends reuniting – which in a way I suppose we were. I look forward to the day I meet my blogging soul sister Tina Drakakis one day – I had hoped to meet her in NYC next month, but sadly finances (or rather my lack of them) have made that impossible this year. Can’t wait to reconnect with my skirt! sisters -next time with you and Tina- and I know it will be wonderful, sublime, and yes incredibly delicious!


    P.S. Thanks for posting that picture (as you can tell we were having a lot of fun that night!)
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 2:09 pm


      Simply sublime.

      What a perfect way to describe meeting these “Soul Sisters.”

      One. Day. Soon.

      Lots of wine. Lots of laughter. Lots of love. Xx You are a rock star.

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    October 21, 2011 at 2:07 pm

    If we met we would laugh and laugh and laugh……because you’re that kind of chickie! And then we would shop!
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 2:09 pm

      Don’t forget the wine and pink martinits :)) XXXX

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    October 21, 2011 at 3:09 pm

    Oh LAWD… meeting my favorite bloggers… what would that be LIKE?

    As you shared in the incriminating photo above, we don’t have to wonder! It’s AMAAAAAZINGGGGG!!! From the moment we met, it was REAL! Utterly, heavenly-y, laugh-until-you-think-you-might-fall-down-and-since-you-“might”-have-had-a-cocktail-or-three-you-truly-MIGHT wonderful!

    My only regret thus far has been not yet meeting you. I even got all the way to within two hours of you once! Gotta make that pan out next time. GOTTA!

    We will laugh… no question there… we will be SILLY… that’s a definite… we will toast some beautiful tributes to those we miss… and you will feed me some of that dadgummed, if-you’re-gonna-tell-me-about-how-wonderful-it-is-then-SEND-ME-SOME chocolate cake!!

    I love ya, girl. You just happen to be there and I’m here, but we are together. This is how I know such things are possible, real – and TRUE.

    Smoochy, lipsticky, wine-stained kisses,
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 3:21 pm


      My heart fills with your Smoochy, lipsticky, wine-stained kisses:))

      Yes. You there. Me here.

      But still together….

      Luv U., Sweet Cheryl.

      love the photo of you above.

      I see your’e on that new law show now w/ Mariska. COOL.

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    October 21, 2011 at 3:22 pm

    Thank you for such an interesting topic, Kim. I think the question you pose is complex, with as many different answers as there are bloggers. There are some blogs that I follow regularly that I would gladly and excitedly jump at the chance to meet them in person. And then there are others, whom I like the relationship just the way it is via their blogs only. That does not mean that I don’t like them “as much” as the ones whom I definitely would like to meet in person, it just means there’s a different attraction of sorts.

    Thank you for providing an interesting subject to mull over ~ junemoon

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 3:48 pm


      I understand. Completely.

      I couldn’t have said it better. 🙂 Thanks.

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    October 21, 2011 at 4:49 pm

    Okay, I’m a little sad Malaysia’s not in your list there!

    I’ve always wondered about this and would usually feel nervous about meeting a fellow blogger. I think you’d find me a totally boring person if we ever met up. I’m shy and a little introverted.

    I have met up with 2 bloggers so far and thankfully they’ve lived up to their blog persona.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 4:59 pm

      I think the hard part is already over…

      most of us already know one another… but who knows. Other responses above say that they have been disappointed after meeting their fave. blogger.

      ::::: SIGH::::::::::

      I have such high expectations…

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    Pure Complex
    October 21, 2011 at 8:11 pm

    I absolutely adore this post. I’ve been wanting to bring up this subject on my blog for so long. I’ve always wondered how it would be to meet some of you.. my blogging family. I imagine it would be an incredible experience.. especially over great food and wonderful conversation. I wanted to start a meet up of sorts but I know everyone is scattered about. I really wish that could happen. I would love to meet all of you
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 10:23 pm

      —Dear, Pure,
      Yes. It would be quite cool to meet the words w/ the faces! x

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    October 21, 2011 at 8:29 pm

    I’ve met a few. Some were terribly phony, some were quite shy.

    I just try to be my usual goofy self and hope that puts people at ease!

    Looking forward to meeting more people next year at Blissdom.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 10:24 pm

      Do you speak at any of the events?

      I’d love to read a blog post about you meeting some of the bloggers :))

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    Unknown Mami
    October 21, 2011 at 9:27 pm

    I’ve met a few bloggers in person and sometimes the conversation flows and sometimes it doesn’t, but I know that some of that is social awkwardness. I am more comfortable writing than I am talking sometimes and so are some others.

    I love the connections I’ve made online and it has not been disappointing when the connection has crossed into real life.

    Love this post.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 10:27 pm

      Dear, Unknown,

      I know. It is much more comfortable sitting at a computer talking than meeting a real human being, isn’t it?

      Perhaps this is why blogging is SO HUGE.

      One can communicate fully even if one is shy & uneasy.


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    Lorraine @ Not Quite Nigella
    October 21, 2011 at 10:04 pm

    Kim, I would love to meet you one day! I hope we will get the chance to as I feel I know you so well from your blog! 🙂 xxx
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 21, 2011 at 10:28 pm

      –And I’d love to taste some of your cooking / baking, L.

      What a treat that would be. Xx

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    The Accidental Somebody
    October 21, 2011 at 11:10 pm

    Girl we would have a FANTASTIC time! And with a little wine….hooo boy. Anyway, I needed to stop in again to let you know how much I appreciate your support. Totally made my day!

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 22, 2011 at 7:25 am

      –Dear Accidental,
      Yes. Always a bit of red wine. We’d have a giggle together…. :)))

      I am so glad I stopped by your site. I love it ! XX

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    Alison@Mama Wants This
    October 22, 2011 at 12:49 am

    Alas, I haven’t met a single blogger I talk to all the time online. I would love to, but I’m so far away from everyone.

    There are a couple of Malaysian bloggers here that I’d love to meet – soon (Kiddothings up there included) but I’m so nervous about it, I haven’t taken the plunge! What if they don’t like me???

    Having said that, I WOULD love to meet everyone, including you, some day. One fine day.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 22, 2011 at 7:27 am

      —Mama, A,
      Everybody LOVES YOU :)) Xxx
      including me…..

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    October 22, 2011 at 1:37 am

    I haven’t met any bloggers I talked to online — I don’t count those I knew before either one of us was blogging. However, I did meet some people I had met online first, we used to hang out on the same forum, talking about books and movies that interested us. Some of them turned out to be pretty much the same people they were online, some were different. Me, for example. I can be talkative and outgoing online, but offline, I’m usually quiet and introvert (and anti-social most of the times).
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 22, 2011 at 7:33 am


      That is the wonderful thing about “writing.” — One can release, let go, scream, and yell in a very unintimidating way….

      This platform is for EVERYBODY. That is what is So COOL. :)) xx

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    October 22, 2011 at 5:36 am

    I loved this post. Made me think. I have never met my followers, but then again, I am just getting into blogging. I love checking out blogs, leaving comments, and getting comments. It makes it more fun to write, especially when we know that we are not alone in so many areas of life!
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 22, 2011 at 7:35 am

      It is FUN connecting.

      I’ve met people from all over the world…And the Coolest thing is: We are pretty much all the same.

      I love that!


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    October 22, 2011 at 6:03 am

    A little squeak from CANADA here…. 😉
    I met someone who had been reading my blog (she wasn’t a blogger) in the spring and let me tell you…I was terrified. I’m not outgoing whatsoever. I’m shy and quiet. Really. I find that my words fall more easily from my finger tips than from my mouth.
    But it was a great visit.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 22, 2011 at 7:38 am

      I believe that most writers express more beautifully and fully thru their writing! Yes. Such a great platform to release the darkness….

      But I am definitelty not SHY…. Just ask Mr. Liverpool.


      You’d be fun to meet. I’d like to hear your entire story one day Xx

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    October 22, 2011 at 6:14 am

    I met bloggers in real life, and I have had some sour disappointments, but mostly I have met some really wonderful people.

    But it still makes me sad that so many of the well known bloggers are not nearly as nice, friendly, simple or honest as they present themselves on their blogs. It’s just so sad.

    On the other hand, I also had the chance to meet some wonderful, wonderful women who are just so loving and smart and funny that sometimes I am tempted to clone myself just so I can e with all of them all the time 🙂
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 22, 2011 at 7:40 am

      So interesting.

      I feel several people would be completely different away from their computers……
      But some are EXSACTLY how they are in their blogs!

      i talk to Elizabeth from New York 2 times a month. she is FABulous.


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    Mrs. Tuna
    October 22, 2011 at 6:47 am

    I met my first real life blogger buddy this summer in California when we were there on vacation. She was shorter in person.

    Thanks for commenting 🙂
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 22, 2011 at 7:42 am

      Mrs. Tuna,

      How Funny.

      I imagine my favorite bloggers in a “much larger light!”

      I imagine all of them Tall, Magical, & Brilliant.


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    Lady Fi
    October 22, 2011 at 8:10 am

    I’ve often thought about this. In fact, I was just wondering what it would be like to meet up with a certain blogger when, lo and behold, you were thinking the same thing!

    I’ve met an American blogger living in Denmark and it was a lovely afternoon.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 22, 2011 at 8:13 am

      –Good minds think Alike, Lady, Fi. X

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    October 22, 2011 at 9:02 am

    Kim, I would also like to meet some of the people who comment on your blog.
    Love You Dad

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 22, 2011 at 9:06 am

      —They’d love you more than they’d love me, Daddy :)) XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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    October 22, 2011 at 9:30 am

    I have never met anyone in person that I know from blogging. Part of me SO wants to, and the other part of me is afraid, for the reasons you said. Would it be the same? Yesterday I went to Blogher Writers, and while I didn’t meet anyone I follow there, I did get to meet a bunch of other bloggers, and everyone was amazing… So, now I am going to do the reverse, start following people online I met in real life.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 22, 2011 at 10:07 am

      That is a VERY cool idea.

      I must really get out there and meet some bloggers.

      So many of them inspire me GREATLY! :))

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    Karen Sosnoski
    October 22, 2011 at 9:53 am

    I met you briefly at the Run for Kay. It felt surreal although I already knew what you looked like from your pictures. I really liked seeing you with your family and local friends. Your blog posts and your support for me when I was blogging have made me want good things for you and I was happy to see the warm, caring people in your life. I felt hesitant to go out for dinner or drinks with you, to try to become in-person friends. Partially this was a time thing.I have many long distance friends and family members to keep up with and have quite a few local friends to do things with but am always looking for more people to share reflections, writerly insights etc. and virtual relationships work almost as well as embodied ones for this. I bet if we did really know each other in embodied life–if we worked together or were in a writer’s group or book group together we’d have moments of banding together over issues or perspectives and we would like each other because of that. I’m less of a Glamour, Girls Night Out Girl, more of a camper, hiker, casual dinner party person than you so maybe we wouldn’t be each other’s fun friends–but one of the good things about getting older (not that we’re old) is that we have more dimensions and don’t need one person to fill all roles. That’s why I like blogs too, seeking out different interests and voices as I need them, in small doses that I have time for. And you’ve impacted me greatly as a virtual friend–that’s a huge gift so I don’t know if I necessarily need more….Other bloggers that I check in on from time to time are people that I already know from other contexts so meeting them in writing was the new experience rather than the other way around…great post question by the way!

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 22, 2011 at 10:04 am

      ~~~~~~~I am much more interested in talking about writing, life, God, love, and deep subjects than “The Party Life.”

      I dont’ give a damn if you camp or dress up or wear lipstick!!

      You are still a woman I’ve connected w/ Greatly & Completely.

      I LOVED seeing you at the walk. I’ll never forget that beautiful face. Never. That beautiful face supporting me & my family.

      I like going for drinks w/ girlfriends….but the deepest friendships include more indepth topics about LIFE & Living & GOD.

      This is why I miss Kay so MUCH. We talked, prayed, loved, & were just together….

      To me, it’s not about what you do…. It’s about WHO YOU ARE.

      I LOVE who you are, Karen.


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    Karen Sosnoski
    October 22, 2011 at 10:05 am

    PS. Actually, sorry to write again, but I think the time issue is probably not quite it–I’ve never really known what to say when I meet writers whose work I like or have connected to. It’s surreal because I feel like I already know them and then have to work through the understanding that I really don’t. And vise versa. I have the same experience each time I see the artist who inspired my novel-in-progress and I’ve known her in real life now for years!–I love talking with her, listening to her but there’s always that jarring, awkward feeling each time we meet because the person I’m writing about and whom I imagine when I see the art that feels like “mine” is her own person, inevitably always quite different from my made up one. Again, thought provoking question, thanks, Kim!

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 22, 2011 at 10:11 am

      —I understand.

      One of the reasons I contacted you on Skirt is because I felt your words inside my bones…

      And I felt the same thing meeting you face to face. I felt an energy. Truly.

      Did I ever tell you that?

      –I LOVE learning from other writers…& Of course, you are one of those deep, profound writers.

      xx Love Love Love.

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    Karen Sosnoski
    October 22, 2011 at 10:07 am

    Kim, I just read your response. Your so wonderful, warm and wise!!! Ditto to all you said. XOXO Karen

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    Goodness and Grit
    October 22, 2011 at 11:28 am

    You left out NORWAY! An accidental oversite I´m sure you will be fixing with your next cup of tar.
    I have never met any of the bloggers I follow. There are a few that I have no doubt I would get along swimmingly with. I feel they are my soul sisters and look forward to the opportunity.

    Kim, if you attend another skirt! thang, do let me know. I´ll climb out from under my snow clump!

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 22, 2011 at 11:34 am


      NORWAY!!! How could I ever forget YOU :)))

      Yes. I missed the last Skirt convention.

      Perhaps we can go to the next one together. Xx

      How’s Norway, Girl?

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    October 22, 2011 at 1:54 pm

    I live in Houston. I have met some of my fellow bloggers. Some have lived up to my expectation, some have passed it, some weren’t that nice. It is interesting to meet someone who you feel like you already know. Maybe we’ll meet one day!
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 22, 2011 at 3:01 pm

      I hope so :))

      I was in Houston a couple years ago… We all went to the Medieval Times. That was my last trip with my sister, Kay.


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    October 22, 2011 at 2:10 pm

    Kim, if I was blessed with the opportunity to meet you, I think that would make for an incredible day! Between the two of us I think we’d talk up a storm and there would not be any awkward silences. Imagine what fun! We’d chit chat over coffee, discuss fun topics like fashion, comedy movies, traveling, and Javier Bardem, or any other actor that suits your fancy! We could drink chick wine and feast on chocolate and oggle handsome men with well toned buttocks! hee hee! Yep, that would make for a spectacular day!

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 22, 2011 at 3:02 pm

      You would be at the top of my list, My Sweet 🙂 Xx

      How fun that would be….

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    October 22, 2011 at 5:05 pm

    I have more contact with my blogging friends than most of my relatives. Since the vast majority of my blogging buddies live outside of Canada (don’t worry I wasn’t offended that you ignored us on your list… we don’t have much of an inferiority complex – ha-ha!!), it’s not like I can swing regular visits BUT, I got to thinking that at some point, we’d have to have a blogging reunion of sorts. I mean, I can’t actually imagine not meeting all of you beautiful people in person at some point. You have become an active part of my everyday life and heart space… this blogging journey has been so much *more* than I ever imagined it would or could be. Thank you for this delicious post Kim – xo.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 22, 2011 at 6:26 pm

      I would be quite interesting to see if certain bloggers fit with/ their blogs!

      Wouldn’t it?
      Many comments above say that they are very shy…. so perhaps, blogging is how they express themselves…


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    October 22, 2011 at 6:28 pm

    I’ve met a few local bloggers, but it’s strange to think about getting together in person with others. Sometimes I think the virtual distance allows us the freedom to say things we couldn’t or wouldn’t say to people we interact with every day.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 22, 2011 at 8:25 pm


      This is true. The distance & freedom is definitely not intimidating…but meeting in person would be a bit scary.

      One would have such high expectations about one’s fave. blogger….I know I would. X

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    October 22, 2011 at 7:00 pm

    I have often wondered what it would be like to meet my “virtual” friends in person. Would they like me? would I like them? Would we have anything to say to each other?

    It’s a scary and exciting thought all at the same time.
    But I do love my Internet world. I have more friends here than irl.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 22, 2011 at 9:27 pm

      there are some bloggers I Will definitely meet….

      I talk to a blogger from NY 2 times a month. I feel as if I’ve known her my entire life… XX

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    October 22, 2011 at 7:24 pm

    I’m fairly new to blogging, but I’ve been posting on bulletin boards and forums for decades. Started off mainly with Basketball Coaching forums (my nickname Up2DaRack is basketball slang for Up to the basket – but that’s a long story). I had the opportunity to meet several poster-coaches from many of the other boards and forums I’ve been on. First time was a coaching clinic a number of us decided to attend. Most were fairly true to personality, but then again, they were good folks already online, and we all became really close after that. The ones we had our suspicions about (the know-it-alls who were absolutely perfect in every way) never seemed to attend any gatherings, which of course further fueled the speculation about how they might be in real life. I’ve also attended several local gatherings of fellow forum members of a News site, and have to say that was a blast each time.

    I’ve never met any fellow WordPress bloggers in real life. The distances and interests are more varied here, making it a bit more difficult. That is not to say I wouldn’t want to meet a number of you with whom I’ve read and commented upon. Some day, maybe…

    So, if you’re ever in the Washington D.C. area, drop me a line.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 22, 2011 at 9:28 pm

      –For sure, Phil.

      I’d make a point of it! :)) x

      And if you’re in MN… give me a buzz.

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    Theresa Sonoda
    October 22, 2011 at 9:55 pm

    Yes, this is something I’ve wondered about a lot. I live in Vegas, as you know, and have had several chances to meet the wonderful bloggers with whom I communicate….however, no meetings have happened. I hope they’re not afraid to meet me because of my sexual orientation. That would be a shame, since I’m not much different than anyone else. I am funny online, I am funny offline. I enjoy life.
    So? My idea is that it would be wonderful to meet my favorite bloggers, and not awkward at all…..well at least after the initial 5 minutes of recognition. Hope to meet you some day Chica!
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 23, 2011 at 7:54 am

      When I get to Vegas again….we shall discuss LIFE & drink Wine together :)) XX Kiss

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    October 23, 2011 at 12:00 am

    I just nervously babbled in front of 12 of my favorite dancers at the So You Think You Can Dance concert the other night. If I had to meet and converse with one of my fellow bloggers I wouldn’t know whether to crap or go blind.

    Well…maybe I’m not THAT bad at maintaining an adult conversation; it would probably depend on the topics and the level of common ground we’d share. I’m a talker once I get to know you…..

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 23, 2011 at 7:56 am


      I’d be quite nervous meeting my Fave. Bloggers.

      I’d think. “Oh, I hope they like ME!!!”


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    Mandy - The Complete Cook Book
    October 23, 2011 at 1:03 am

    Kim, I often wonder the same thing! Must be great minds! Sadly I have never met any of my fellow bloggers – there may be the opportunity of meeting 2 of them sometime hopefully. I live so “remotely” to most bloggers so guess the opportunities are less. You can bet though that if and or when I do, the first thing I will do is blog about it! I don’t want to believe that there would be awkward moments of silence as we all follow a passion of wanting to share with the world, openly and honestly, regardless of what the subject matter is.
    Have a beautiful Sunday.
    🙂 Mandy xo
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 23, 2011 at 7:57 am


      Yes…Having the same passions would make a difference!

      Have a lovely Sunday.

      Love to you in S. Africa. X

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    Vidya Sury, Freelance Writer & Blogger
    October 23, 2011 at 1:10 am

    Grrr. I posted a comment and the web page froze and it is all gone. Twice. You’d think I’d copy it so I could paste it and be happy – but no. Didn’t occur to me. It also happened yesterday – when I got the site not available – so gave up and came back today. Some things I never learn. 🙂

    Thank you for such a thought-provoking post, Kim. I’ve met some bloggers – and while some come on strong initially and then assume the other person will take full responsibility to keep the relationship going (goodbye, those, eventually), there are others I’ve formed friendships with, for the long-haul. We chat every day (almost) and make it a point to meet up when we visit each other’s city, since many of them live in different cities. Goes to show there are no real boundaries in friendship.

    I consider myself lucky because most of my friends are people I practically grew up with (through school, college, boyfriends, broken affairs, bitching, dreaming and all). We talk for hours on the phone, regardless of which country we live in, today. Feel so blessed.

    A big part of my life revolves around the bloggers I love (and that includes you, Kim). I worry when they don’t post for more than two days if they’re the regular sorts. I visit their blogs anyway just to feel connected, even if we don’t interact live. I love how I can chat with some and discuss silly things like my periods in detail. And i love it when they email me or message me to yell at me and ask WTF am up to. Ah, the freedom of friendship!

    I am grateful for my life. And love my own private blog-o-sphere. I love how they inspire and motivate me on days I feel somewhat eff-ed up.

    I credit you with making my day on several occasions 😉 Thanks for being, Kim.

    (I have now cleverly copied and pasted this comment on a notepad ;-), just in case!)
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 23, 2011 at 8:02 am

      Love when you visit me…And I look forward to your comments!!

      I love your Sunday Photos!

      You are filled w/ Love & Insight. ALWAYS.

      Kiss to you in India. xx

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    October 23, 2011 at 7:27 am

    Well, I’m 4′ 8″, weighing a proud 200 lbs, with fire red hair down my back, with boobs like Dolly Parton and gonna stay proud of it. 🙂
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 23, 2011 at 8:03 am

      I would have never thought it, Tots.

      Still Love ya… even if you have a mustache!! Xxx

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    October 23, 2011 at 8:12 am

    I met a few of my favorite bloggers recently and it was great!

    Actually, we were in the USA last summer (unexpectedly) (after the earthquake in Japan) and my daughter didn’t have any friends, so the only guest at her birthday party was one of my blogging friend’s daughters. They drove for three hours, just to come to the party — and THAT’S a real testament to the power of blogging!
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 23, 2011 at 8:23 am


      I Love that they drove up to be at your daughter’s b-party!

      Fabulous story!

      Yes. The POWER of blogging Rocks the world.


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    Kristy @PampersandPinot
    October 23, 2011 at 1:21 pm

    It might be kind of anxious at first but I bet it would be great! I have tried to meet up with someone before, but she never would follow through so now I am hesitant.
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      My Inner Chick
      October 23, 2011 at 3:14 pm

      So surreal meeting our fave bloggers in person.

      I met one of my fave writers in Duluth and the first thing I did was HUG her Real Big like & said, “I can’t believe It’s really YOU!”

      Way Cool. X
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    joann mannix
    October 23, 2011 at 2:21 pm

    I was fortunate enough, (so far), to meet one of my blogger friends. June of Bye Bye Pie who is like my blog hero and I met up in our home state. And it was everything and more, we tripped over our words, trying to say it all and it was just like I’d known her all my life.

    Some of my strongest friendships are with other bloggers. And even though, we’ve never met “in real life” I count them as some of my dearest friends. I would love to meet others. I know it would be a blast. I’d love to see a blogger conference with no agenda, no keynote speakers, no forums, just a conference to meet up with each other and spend time together. I don’t give a crap about the other stuff. I’m here to make friends.
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    October 23, 2011 at 3:31 pm

    Some of the blogs I read were already friends and I can say they are very much like their bloggy personalities.
    Some I have become friends with through blogging…same thing!
    I think we are our true selves on our blogs for the most part. And that’s a good thing.
    I’m from Long Island, NY, and have been a very lazy blogger as of late!
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 23, 2011 at 3:43 pm

      I miss your blog posts. Get going, girl !! :))) Xx

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    October 24, 2011 at 7:36 am

    Ahhhhh! How did I miss this blog????

    I met the illustrious Cheryl. . .and she was a riot and everything I thought she’d be and MORE. She was warm, kind, funny and not judgmental AT ALL. . .not even when I took her to a local dive bar that was wall-papered with one-dollar bills and then proceeded to knock over the guitar of the acoustic performer. Whoopsie. 🙂

    I haven’t written a blog in over a year and haven’t seen anyone in about. . .what? Three years? Maybe more? But I still think of many of you often and with love. You, Elizabeth, Cheryl, Charlene, Mercedes, Renee, Jodene, Ginger, Pam. . .and so many more! There are days when I DESPISE “teh intrawebz” and feel that it is nothing more than an insidious Tower of Babel that must be destroyed. Then, there are days when I am so grateful for it. . .so appreciative that I get to hear the voices and see the faces of beautiful human beings that I may not have otherwise known.

    Loving you bunches!

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 24, 2011 at 9:23 am


      You. I’d LOVE to meet you!

      Love to you. Blowing kisses from Duluth Xxxx

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    Lady E
    October 24, 2011 at 1:08 pm

    I’ve met Surrey Gal in the flesh and she was really lovely. I felt we would have become real life friends if we’d lived nearer.
    And yep, I’d like to meet other bloggers I follow, it’d be great…In fact Kim, you know you’re invited if you ever want to check out whether he French Alps ARE really like Paradise :)…
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 24, 2011 at 2:25 pm

      –Lady, E,

      Yes! I would definitely come visit you in Paradise ;)))

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    October 24, 2011 at 10:54 pm

    Wonderful post, Mistress Kim. Tis true we live inside of the sphere, knowing, but not truly knowing the person the other side of the words the page. Blogging of course is different that a writer’s book. We do bare our souls, our thighs, our curves, the rants and raves, but is the person behind the words like the words. Hmmm Me, I am guessing we all keep a little back. Come on honey, it’s part of the seduction.
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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 25, 2011 at 5:48 am


      Love that word, Brenda.

      Yes. And I guess this might be one of the reasons one continues going back to certain blogs…

      One is awaiting more of the removal of clothing…. more forplay….More….


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    (FL) Girl with a New Life
    October 25, 2011 at 9:58 am

    I would like to think that yes, I am pretty much the same person online as I am in real life. Except that I curse more in real life. 😉

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 25, 2011 at 5:12 pm

      -F L,

      I agree. I hope that I am, as well….

      I think I am definitely just as Weird :))

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    The Flying Chalupa
    October 25, 2011 at 2:56 pm

    Having attended my first BlogHer in San Diego this year, I have to say, that for the most part, the blogging ladies I met in person are just as fabulous as their virtual selves. There will always be a few exceptions – mainly because I think some people are simply more comfortable being online. Interesting post and questions!

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      Kim Sisto-Robinson
      October 25, 2011 at 5:13 pm

      —Dear F C.

      Yes, I agree….

      Being behind the computer can feel quiet safe and unintimidating. ;)))

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    Michael Ann
    October 26, 2011 at 12:33 pm

    No, I haven’t met any fellow bloggers! Oh, except a woman who I am already friends with, who also has a blog. There are so many I would like to meet someday. I know some live close to me. Maybe someday….
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